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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue",Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Sickened by the whole whirl of 'kiddy consumerism’, eight months ago Hattie <br /> Garlick did something radical and decided to opt out altogether. So how are <br />she and two-year-old Johnny faring? </span></span></h2>
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<span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue",Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: x-small;"><span class="caption">Hattie Garlick with her two-year-old son, Johnny, at home</span> <span class="credit">Photo: LAURA HYND</span></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue",Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">By <span rel="author">Hattie Garlick</span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: x-small;"><span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue",Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">7:00AM BST 05 Aug 2013</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: x-small;"><span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue",Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">You don’t expect to be faced with an existential crisis at a children’s birthday party. Yet there I was, in early January, cake half way to mouth, when one of the fathers asked me, 'So do you think the way we’re raising <br />our children is evil?’ How had I got here? A fortnight before, I’d blithely started a blog, <a href="http://www.freeourkids.co.uk/" target="_blank">Free our Kids</a>, that would chart a year-long personal challenge: could I go a whole year without spending any money on children’s products for my son? In retrospect, I hadn’t thought a great deal about it.I published the first entry, went to make a coffee, and came back to a small storm of online interest. One hundred messages, five hundred new Twitter followers and 10,000 visits to the blog by the end of the day. By the end of that week, it had had international coverage from Australian breakfast TV to the Hollywood blogger Perez Hilton. I’m not an eco-warrior or a socialist. I don’t, as that father suggested, think 'we should all just weave our shoes out of palm fronds, go live in the hills and sing kumbaya.’ </span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: x-small;"><span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue",Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Neither am I another self-appointed expert on other people’s <a href="http://www.babyonline.co.za/" target="_blank">parenting techniques</a>. I’m just a working mother <br />with limited time, patience and funds.This became critical three days before last Christmas when I was made redundant. It was terrifying. Every area of unnecessary spending – new clothes, eating out, magazine subscriptions – had already been eliminated when our two-year-old son was born. But I began to notice something: my wallet was stuffed with receipts for toys, 'Tiny Tots Tumble Classes’ and cute little trousers <br />from Baby Gap. Every supermarket shop included at least £15 of 'children’s food’ such as mini pots of yoghurt, special squash and fish fingers. It all added up. And it wasn’t just about the expense. According to UNICEF’s well-being reports, British children’s happiness lags well behind many others in the developed world.</span></span><sup><img alt="" src="http://i.telegraph.co.uk/multimedia/archive/02630/guitar_2630818c.jpg" /> <br /><span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue",Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Learning the guitar with his father, Tom</span></sup><span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue",Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"> </span><br />
<span style="font-size: x-small;"><span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue",Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">The reason? We, their parents, are trapping them in a cycle of 'compulsive consumerism’ that makes them miserable. Meanwhile, parents are wracked with guilt, partly because we can’t afford all the things we think <br />our children want and need. I thought of Johnny’s overflowing toy box and of how rarely he actually played with anything in it. Apparently, there are 474 million unused toys gathering dust in British homes – seven for every single person in the country. Was I accidentally teaching my son materialistic values? I made a New Year resolution to cut out all spending on 'kiddy consumerism’: no more new toys, no more new clothes, no kiddy snacks, paid-for activities, disposable nappies or professional haircuts. Our mothers and grandmothers managed without them, right? There must be alternatives. But points that had felt clear, typed onto the glow of a laptop screen, became clouded with emotion as I looked at the room of presents and cutely-outfitted children. Would<br /> I be depriving Johnny? Was I prepared for him to stand out from his peers? Before I could think about clothes <br />and toys, however, I had to tackle food. Johnny has always been fussy. I’ve relied on organic toddler lasagne <br />and mini-rice cakes to coax him into eating. Heading to Tesco for the new, 'real’ food we would be eating together, <br />I was suddenly aware of the vast range of children’s products on offer. Infant ready meals didn’t even exist as an industry category in 2006. Now they’re worth £25.8 million in this country and are growing by 23 per cent every year. Why had I been buying them? Yes, I had a picky toddler who screamed at the sight of a cucumber. I was short of time. But, I'm realising, I was short of self-confidence too. I was easily lured by promises of brain-boosting omegas and balanced diets. Not this time. That night, instead of cooking two separate meals, we sat down to a family supper of shepherd’s pie. And… nothing happened. Well, Johnny picked out the carrots and built a tower with them. But there was no tantrum. Later in the week, he threw his ratatouille at the wall and I momentarily pined for Jamie Oliver’s fish fingers. But, instead, I spooned what was left onto my plate, took a deep breath, and got on with the day. It’s meant compromises for my husband and I – fewer spicy curries,<br /> more pedestrian pies – but I no longer dread my son’s mealtimes and spend much less time in the kitchen.</span></span><br />
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<sup><span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue",Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Johnny being helpful in the kitchen and playing the piano </span></sup> <br />
<span style="font-size: x-small;"><span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue",Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">And, because I haven’t spent extra time and money on Johnny’s meal, I’m more relaxed if he refuses it.<br /> He just has a banana and usually eats the next meal. As the months wore on, I began to see that a lack <br />of self-confidence was behind a lot of my spending. My husband and I don't have any family within an hour’s <br />drive of our home. Without the advice and support of relatives to lean on, there were times when I felt scared, incompetent and alone.I was easy prey for product marketers. I remember standing in the baby aisle of a department store jiggling a screaming, colicky infant, my eyes and mind blurred by a rainbow of pastel-coloured goods promising to 'soothe’ and 'comfort’ my angry child, as I had failed to do. Exhausted, and desperate to do the right thing, I’d fallen for the idea that I wasn’t enough on my own. To be a good parent, I needed all these props – educational mobiles that played Beethoven sonatas, baby sign language classes and purees put together in a factory. Perhaps unsurprisingly, the annual cost of raising a child in Britain hit a ten-year high this year of £1,307 - 58% more than a decade ago. Over £500 a year goes on clothes alone. Partly to combat this and partly to reach out to my neighbours, I decided to hold a swapping party for local parents. I posted an invitation on a community Facebook page inviting parents over to exchange unwanted kids’ things. Having done that, I panicked: an unspecified number of total strangers was about to descend on my home. Then the doorbell rang. Three hours later, I’d passed on a bag of old baby toys and acquired three pairs of trousers, two T-shirts and some books. And I’d gone from knowing only two people on our road to suddenly having a dozen new friends to call on for help, company, activities and swaps. </span></span><br />
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<sup><span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue",Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Johnny and friends are let loose in the kitchen</span></sup> <br />
<span style="font-size: x-small;"><span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue",Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">A recent National Trust report noted a 'pay to play culture’ across Britain – the prevalent feeling amongst parents that, with expensive classes and entertainment all around us, simply leaving your child to play outside with a stick must count as lazy or, worse, uncaring. Over the months, we’ve found that most of the activities that we enjoy doing together are, in fact, free: cooking, gardening, foraging, even just getting together with neighbours for coffee and 'music lessons’ (everyone brings whatever instruments they’ve got, or even just pots and pans, and we turn the music up loud). There have been times when turfing Johnny and his friends into the garden has resulted in <a href="http://babyonline.co.za/a-ztoddler/toddler_tantrums.htm" target="_blank">tantrums</a> and tears (mine as well as theirs) and I can’t just let him play on our busy London street. Work deadlines mean I often don’t have time to plan inventive games of my own. But we can just turn up to the park now and, instead of Jonny playing on his own, he plays with his friends from the neighbourhood.There’s just no need to pay for soft play sessions and classes when your child has a social life on his doorstep.One challenging moment came when I realised I’d forgotten all about children’s toothpaste and no-tears shampoo. Surely those were non-negotiable purchases? I called Dr Chris Flower, a cosmetics expert, who told me that while some children’s products are less concentrated, many are just brightly packaged, appealingly fragranced versions of adult cosmetics. Sure enough, I uncovered industry reports bragging about the success of 'character licensing’ (the use of cartoon characters) in fostering 'pester power’ in children as young as two, thereby boosting their sales.I wrote a triumphant blog post about my discovery - I love a bit of myth-busting - and I wasn’t prepared for the reaction of other parents. “How can you scrimp on your child’s safety?” asked one mother. No matter how much research you’ve done that always hurts. </span></span><br />
<sup><img alt="" src="http://i.telegraph.co.uk/multimedia/archive/02630/gardening_2630810c.jpg" /> <br /><span style="font-size: x-small;"><span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue",Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Johnny gets creative in the garden.</span></span></sup><span style="font-size: x-small;"><span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue",Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"> </span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: x-small;"><span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue",Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">But the real test was when Johnny grew out of his shoes and the podiatrists I spoke to disagreed on whether <br />or not new shoes are essential at his age. Realising that there are no hard and fast rules is liberating but also frightening. Without the security of expert advice to follow, I was on my own. A virtually unscuffed pair of second-hand leather lace-ups was offered to us by a neighbour. I accepted them with mixed feelings. The reaction online was, unexpectedly, one of interest rather than condemnation. Many of my greatest fears have gone unrealised: cloth nappies, for example. On the first day of using them, I laid out what I imagined were the essentials: pair of marigolds, nose peg, industrial bin liner. When the big reveal happened, it was a bit of an anti-climax. The nappies snap on with poppers or Velcro, have a flushable liner and the rest goes into the machine. Huh. Hanging them out to dry and making my tiny stand against disposable culture, I felt a deep and unfamiliar sense of satisfaction. It just about made up for carting bags of dirty rags around with me whenever <br />I went out. And Johnny doesn’t stand out from his smartly-dressed peers at all. Toddlers grow so fast that their clothes barely get worn. Some of the 'second hand’ items I’ve acquired still have the tags attached. And, you know, maybe London did host the world’s first Kid’s Fashion Week this year - but two year olds really don’t care about trends. </span></span><br />
<sup><img alt="" src="http://i.telegraph.co.uk/multimedia/archive/02630/catwalk_2630808c.jpg" /> <br /><span style="font-size: x-small;"><span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue",Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">The first Global Kids’ Fashion Week, in London</span></span></sup><span style="font-size: x-small;"><span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue",Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"> </span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: x-small;"><span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue",Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">There are times when that old materialistic hankering rears its head. At the moment, there is a craze in <br />London for a particular brand of micro scooter. Johnny seems to be the only child in our neighbourhood without one.He’s happy and content. He hasn’t asked me for one. And yet I want him to have one. It’s made me realise that not wanting Johnny to stand out isn’t always about Johnny – sometimes it’s about me. We’re now six months into our project and people keep asking what we’ll do when the year is up. Will we buy Johnny a massive present? I don’t think so. He hasn’t even noticed the change. Will we carry on? I’m pregnant and recently found out it’s a girl. The thought of the consumer clarion calls my daughter will have to resist as she grows up is quite daunting: the princess dresses, the fashionable clothes, the expensive make-up. I want to do everything I can to help her see through the notion that she 'needs’ those things to feel truly feminine. When our year of free parenting is finished, I won’t be devoting days of my life to hunting for the perfect anorak on online swapping sites like Freecycle when there’s one going for £3.50 in the Oxfam down the road - it’s just not sane. But I hope we'll keep hold of some of the lessons we’ve learned.It turns out Johnny will happily spend hours building something out of a cardboard box but only be amused by a new toy for a few minutes. We’re tending to tadpoles and vegetables in the garden now, and Johnny takes it really seriously. He takes his grandparents out there when they come round and they watch the birds and butterflies and talk about how plants grow.I wouldn’t swap it for <br />a million micro scooters.</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: xx-small;">Article reference: </span><span style="font-size: xx-small;"><span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue",Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">This article was written by Hattie Gartlick in <a href="http://www.telegraph.co.uk/women/10211090/Successful-parenting-without-spending-money-a-mothers-story.html" target="_blank">The Telegraph</a> 7:00am BST 05 Aug 2013 </span></span><span style="font-size: x-small;"><span class="credit"> </span></span></div>
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<br /><br /><span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">You've just started your child in a new creche. It's the first day however things go wrong and your child protests loudly when its' time for you to say good bye. Many children experience anxiety when starting a new childcare arrangement but there is plenty you can do to make the transition as stress free as possible for you and your child. Remember lots of patience and hugs are very important at this stage</span>. <br /><br /><strong>Here are a few tips:</strong></span><br />
<br /><span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: x-small;">Prepare your child by talking to them in advance, tell them where they will be going, what they will be doing.<br /> </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: x-small;">Take your child to visit the creche or childcare center on a couple of occasions before you need to leave them for the first time. Show your child where they will be going. Answer any questions they may have openly and honestly reassuring them that everything is OK. Sometimes you can arrange to have a few short "trial" periods of 1, 2 or 3 hours before the first full day at creche. <br /> </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: x-small;">Arrive at least 15 minutes ahead of time so that you can help your child to settle into an activity before you have to head off to work. They are less likely to protest your departure if they are having fun and involved with an activity.<br /> </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: x-small;">If you feel it necessary, familiar objects such as a favourite stuffed animal or security blanket should be on hand. Your child may find it easier to adjust to a particular care situation having a favoured toy to hold when feeling anxious or upset.<br /> </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: x-small;">Try and allocate enough time so you aren't rushing to sign in and settle your child into an activity.<br /> </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: x-small;">Pay attention to your own body language when saying good bye to your child. If you're feeling uncertain about the new arrangement you could be conveying some of your own anxiety to your child. Try to leave the rush hour mentality at the door<br /> </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: x-small;">Resist the temptation to sneak out the door while your child isn't looking. You'll simply create more problems for both of you. Fearing that you're going to disappear again, your child may become unwilling to let you out of sight for a minute, even when you are at home.<br /> </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: x-small;">If your child reacts strongly see if your partner or a trusted friend can drop the child off instead. They might actually be protesting your departure more than the particular childcare environment.<br /> </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: x-small;">If you feel there is a problem of any sort you should ask your child's creche or center if they can provide insights. For instance maybe the child doesn't like one of the other children in the group or is having difficulty settling down for an afternoon nap!<br /> </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: x-small;">Consistency is important so stick to a routine. Avoid making other changes to your child's routine while getting used to a new childcare arrangement. For example this would not be a ideal time to move them from a cot to a bed.<br /> </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: x-small;">Accept the fact that it takes time for young children to adjust to a new childcare setting and some children take longer than others.</span> <br />
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You have done well to make the decision in advance so that you have plenty of time to start supplementing feeds in an easy and unstressed manner. In general the optimum time to start offering a supplementary feed is when baby is around six weeks old. At this age the <a href="http://babyonline.co.za/az-baby-index/breastfeeding_inthebeginnning.htm" target="_blank">breastfeeding</a> is well established but not to the extent that baby will reject the bottle. Remember this is a very broad generalisation and that every baby is an individual! For this reason it may be necessary to enlist help, so that the introductory formula feeds are not given by you. </div>
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Make sure that your helper ensures that the experience is a loving and positive one for the baby, with lots of cuddling and chatting. If it’s not possible to have help in this situation then try to wear heavy clothing between you and the baby and try gentle distraction. When introducing the first formula feed, both you and the hungry baby should be in a positive frame of mind. Once you have successfully introduced one feed per day, stick with that one feed for a week or ten days before introducing another feed. This helps baby to get used to the new situation and will reduce your levels of discomfort, as the milk will initially build up in expectation of the missed feed. </div>
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Potty training</h2>
Most parents eagerly anticipate <a href="http://babyonline.co.za/a-ztoddler/Potty1.htm" target="_blank">potty training</a> as a milestone in their child's development, if for no other reason than that it means an end to <a href="http://babyonline.co.za/az-baby-index/nappychangingetiquette_cherubs.htm" target="_blank">nappy changing</a>. But few moms and dads are prepared for how long potty training can take.<br />
Sure, some children master it within a few days, but others can take several months. In general, the younger your child is when you start to toilet-train, the longer it takes. You and your child have a better chance of success if you understand the elements of training and approach the process in a clear fashion. Here are the basic steps:<br />
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A. Assess your child's <a href="http://babyonline.co.za/a-ztoddler/Potty1.htm" target="_blank">potty training readiness</a> — and your own</h3>
When your child is about a year old, she'll be able to begin to recognize that she has a full rectum or bladder. Some children are ready to start <a href="http://babyonline.co.za/a-ztoddler/Potty3.htm" target="_blank">potty training</a> as early as 18 months, while others aren't interested in the process until after the age of 3. Many parents begin potty training when their children are about 2 and a half.<br />
Try not to put on the pressure – rushing her when she's not ready will be counterproductive.<br />
And don't expect this child to have the same timeline as your older child. <a href="http://babyonline.co.za/a-ztoddler/Potty7.htm" target="_blank">Boys</a> tend to train a bit more slowly than girls, while second (and subsequent) children may learn more quickly than firstborns.<br />
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B. Buy the right equipment</h3>
First and foremost, invest in a child-size potty chair or a special adapter seat that attaches to your regular toilet. This eases the anxiety some children feel about the grown-up toilet – some fear falling into it, others dislike the loud noise of the flush.<br />
Figure out what equipment is best for your toddler before you go shopping, then ask your child to help you pick a potty chair out. Once you get the special chair home, write his name on it and encourage him to play with it.<br /><br />If you're buying a potty chair for your son, look for one without a urine guard or with a removable one. You may have to wipe up a little more stray pee, but the guards tend to bump into and scrape a boy's penis when he sits on the potty, which can discourage him from training.<br /><br />If you're using an adapter seat, make sure it's comfy and secure, and buy a stool to go with it. Your toddler will need the stool in order to get up and down from the toilet quickly and easily, as well as to brace his feet while sitting, which helps him push when he's having a bowel movement.<br />
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C. Create a routine</h3>
Set your toddler on the potty seat, fully clothed, once a day – after breakfast, before her bath, or whenever else she's likely to have a bowel movement. This will help her get used to the potty and accept it as part of her routine. If there's not an easily accessible bathroom around, bring your child's portable potty outside, to the playroom, or wherever she may be.<br />
Once she's fine with this routine, have her sit on the potty bare-bottomed. Again, let her get used to how this feels. At this point, let her know that this is what Mommy and Daddy (and any older siblings) do every day – that taking off your pants before you use the bathroom is a grown-up thing to do.<br />
If sitting on the potty with or without clothes is upsetting to your toddler, don't push it. Never restrain her or physically force her to sit there, especially if she seems scared. It's better to put the potty aside for a few weeks before trying again. Then, if she's willing to sit there, you know she's comfortable enough to proceed.<br />
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D. Demonstrate for your child</h3>
Children learn by imitation, and watching you use the bathroom is a natural way to understand what using the toilet is all about. If you have a son, it's simpler to teach him to pee sitting down at this young age. Later, when he's mastered that, he can watch his dad, older brother, or friend pee standing up – he's bound to pick it up quickly with just a little encouragement.<br />
When you demonstrate for your toddler, it's helpful to talk about how you know it's time to go to the bathroom, then explain what's going on as you're using the toilet and let him see afterward what you "made." Then show him how you wipe with toilet paper, pull up your underwear, flush the toilet, and wash your hands.<br />
Even though you'll be helping your toddler with these activities for some time, especially wiping after a bowel movement, seeing you do it and hearing you talk through it will help him get used to the whole process. (If your toddler is a girl, when you wipe her be sure to go from front to back, especially after a bowel movement, to minimize the risk of urinary tract infections.)<br />
If your toddler has older siblings or friends who are potty-trained, consider having them demonstrate, too. It can be helpful for your child to see others close to his age exhibiting the skills he's trying to learn.<br />
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E. Explain the process</h3>
Show your toddler the connection between pooping and the toilet. The next time she poops in her diaper, take her to the potty, sit her down, and empty the diaper beneath her into the bowl. Afterward, let her flush if she wants to (but don't force her if she's scared) so she can watch her feces disappear.<br />
You also may want to pick up a few potty-training picture books or videos for your toddler, which can assist her in taking in all this new information. Everyone Poops, by Taro Gomi, is a perennial favorite, as well as Where's the Poop? and Once Upon a Potty, which even comes in a version with a doll and miniature potty.<br />
Keeping a book like this in the bathroom, or a poster or flipbook that illustrates the steps in using the potty, can help your toddler get familiar with the process and relate it to what she does in the bathroom.<br />
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F. Foster the habit</h3>
Encourage your toddler to sit on the potty whenever he feels the urge to go. If he needs help getting there and taking off his diaper, make sure he knows it's okay to ask you for help any time.<br />
If you can, let him run around bare-bottomed sometimes with the potty nearby. The more time he spends out of diapers, the faster he's likely to learn, although you'll have to steel yourself to clean up a few more puddles. Tell him he can use the potty whenever he wants to, and remind him occasionally that it's there if he needs it.<br />
Sometimes toddlers won't sit on the potty long enough to relax and let anything come out. Calmly encourage him to sit there for at least a minute or so. You'll have the best luck getting him to stay put if you keep him company and talk to him or read him a book.<br />
When your toddler uses the potty successfully, shower him with praise. This will help to give him positive reinforcement as he masters potty training. Chances are that he'll continue to have accidents, but he'll start to grasp that getting something in the potty is an accomplishment.<br />
Still, try not to make a big deal out of every trip to the potty or your toddler may start to feel nervous and self-conscious under the glare of all that attention.<br />
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<br />G. Grab some training pants</h3>
Once training is under way, consider adding training pants – extra-thick cloth or disposables that pull on like underwear – to your routine. They'll allow your toddler to undress for the potty on her own, which is a critical step toward becoming completely potty-trained.<br />
While cloth training pants are less convenient than disposable pull-ups, many parents say they work better because your toddler can really feel when she pees or poops in them. Whichever option you choose, introduce them gradually – probably for a few hours at a time – and stick with diapers at night for the time being.<br />
When your child consistently seeks out the potty whenever she has to go, it's time to move on to "big-kid" underwear. Many moms and dads have found that undies with a favorite character on them give kids a dandy incentive to stay dry.<br />
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H. Handle setbacks gracefully</h3>
Toilet training can be difficult for parents and children. Keep in mind that temporary setbacks are completely normal and virtually every child will have several accidents before being able to stay dry all day long.<br />
An accident doesn't mean that you've failed. When it happens, don't get angry or punish your child. After all, it's only recently that his muscle development has allowed him to hold his bladder and rectum closed at all, and he's still learning why it's important to use the potty. Mastering the process will take time.<br />
What can you do? Reduce the chance of accidents by dressing your toddler in clothes that are easy to remove quickly. When he has an accident anyway, be positive and loving and calmly clean it up. Suggest sweetly that next time he try using his potty instead.<br />
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I. Introduce night training</h3>
Don't give away that stash of diapers just yet. Even when your child is consistently clean and dry all day, it may take several more months, or even years, for her to stay dry all night. At this age, her body is still too immature to wake her up in the middle of the night reliably just to go to the bathroom. In fact, it's perfectly normal for a child to continue wetting the bed occasionally until she's in her early school years.<br />
When you're ready to embark on night training, your toddler should continue to wear a diaper or pull-up to bed, but encourage her to use the potty if she has to pee or poop during the night. Tell her that if she wakes up in the middle of the night needing to go, she can call you for help. You can also try putting her potty near her bed so she can use it right there.<br />
If she manages to stay dry consistently at night, it might be a good time to start nighttime training. Put a plastic sheet under the cloth one to protect the mattress. Put your toddler in underwear (or nothing) and have her use the toilet before you tuck her in. Then see how it goes. When she wakes up, get her in the habit of using the bathroom before she begins her day.<br />
But remember that many children aren't ready to stay dry at night until they're school-age. There's also not much you can do to help things along, short of limiting liquids before bedtime, so if your toddler doesn't seem to get the hang of it, put her back in nighttime diapers and try again in a few months when she's a little older.<br />
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J. Jump for joy — you're done!</h3>
Believe it or not, when your child is mentally and physically ready to learn this new skill, he will. And if you wait until he's really ready to start, the process shouldn't be too painful for either of you.<br />
When it's over, reinforce his pride in his achievement by letting him give away leftover diapers to a family with younger kids or help you pack up the cloth diapers and send them away with the diaper delivery service one last time.<br />
And don't forget to pat yourself on the back. Now you won't have to think about diapers ever again – at least, not until the next baby.<br />
<span style="font-size: x-small;"><em>Ref The ABCs of potty training article on </em></span><a href="http://www.babycentre.com/" target="_blank"><span style="font-size: x-small;"><em>http://www.babycentre.com</em></span></a><br />Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3699607697659395516.post-80064278549802970792013-01-14T02:21:00.001-08:002013-01-14T02:21:13.683-08:00Toddler sunburnIf your baby gets a sunburn and he's younger than 12 months old, call the doctor, even if the sunburn appears mild. Sunburn in a child under age 1 can be more serious than it appears. The doctor will ask about your baby's symptoms and possibly ask you to bring your baby in for an examination, to make sure he doesn't need emergency treatment.<br />
If your child is age 1 or older and his skin is just a little pink and tender, you probably don't need to call the doctor. (See more details under "When to call the doctor," below.) Just try to keep him as comfortable as possible until the burn heals, and follow these tips.<br />
<a href="http://www.blogger.com/null" name="articlesection1"></a><h3>Do's and don'ts for treating and soothing sunburn</h3><strong>Do</strong><br />
<ul class="paddedList"><li>Offer plenty of fluids: <a href="http://babyonline.co.za/az-baby-index/breastfeeding_frequentfeeding.htm" target="_blank">breast milk</a> or formula if your child is a baby, water and other liquids if he's older. This helps the skin heal and replaces fluids lost by being out in the sun.</li>
<li>Soak a clean, soft washcloth in cool water, wring it out, and gently place it on the sunburned area for ten to 15 minutes a few times a day, making sure your child doesn't get chilled.</li>
<li>Try a cool bath. To make it more soothing, add baking soda or an oatmeal-based bath treatment (found in drugstores). Pat your child's skin dry – don't rub!</li>
<li>Apply a water-based (alcohol-free) moisturizing lotion or an aloe vera gel to relieve itching. Itching can get worse if the burn starts to peel.</li>
<li>If your child's hurting, you can probably give him the correct dose of children's acetaminophen or ibuprofen to ease the pain. If you have a baby younger than 12 months, ask the doctor when you call whether it's okay to offer a pain reliever. (Ibuprofen is recommended for children 6 months and up.) Never give your child aspirin. It can put him at risk for a sometimes fatal condition called Reye's syndrome.</li>
<li>Dress your child in loose clothing that won't irritate burned skin.</li>
<li>Keep your child out of the sun until the burn has completely healed. It's very easy for a child who's already sunburned to get a second burn.</li>
</ul><strong>Don't</strong><br />
<ul class="paddedList"><li>Don't put petroleum-based products like petroleum jelly on your child's skin. These prevent heat and sweat from escaping and can make a burn worse. The same goes for butter and oils.</li>
<li>Don't use first-aid sprays or ointments that contain benzocaine. Benzocaine can irritate skin or cause an allergic reaction.</li>
<li>Don't pop any blisters. Blisters form to protect your child's underlying skin, and breaking them open can lead to infection. If they do break, apply an antibiotic ointment and a nonstick wound dressing. Don't trim off the dead skin.</li>
</ul><strong> When to call the doctor</strong><br />
Call the doctor right away if your baby has a sunburn.<br />
If a child age 1 or older has a mild sunburn and his skin is just a little pink and tender, you don't need to call the doctor.<br />
Note: You may not notice a sunburn right after you bring your child indoors. The redness and pain of a mild first-degree burn can take several hours to appear.<br />
Call the doctor if your child:<br />
<ul><li>starts to blister in the first 24 hours</li>
<li>has swelling on his hands or face</li>
<li>has signs of infection (pus or red streaks)</li>
<li>is running a <a href="http://www.babycenter.com/0_fever_84.bc" title="">fever</a> or has chills</li>
<li>has a <a href="http://www.babycenter.com/0_headache_1389886.bc">headache</a></li>
<li>seems to be in extreme pain or just doesn't feel well</li>
<li>vomits, feels lightheaded, or faints</li>
</ul><strong>Why is a sunburn so serious?</strong><br />
A sunburn is literally burned skin. Your child's skin is very thin and very sensitive, so it can burn quickly.<br />
A sunburn might be a first-degree burn, which causes redness, mild swelling, and pain. A second-degree burn is more serious. It's more painful, with more swelling, redness, and blisters.<br />
A first-degree burn usually heals in two to five days. A second-degree burn can last for a couple of weeks.<br />
If your child has spent too much time in the sun, he may also be at risk for <a href="http://www.babycenter.com/0_heat-stroke_416.bc" title="">heat stroke</a>.<br />
<a href="http://www.blogger.com/null" name="articlesection4"></a>What if my child's skin starts peeling?<br />
Don't be alarmed if the sunburned skin starts to peel. Peeling is a natural part of the healing process. It usually begins a few days after the sunburn happens.<br />
<a href="http://www.blogger.com/null" name="articlesection5"></a>Is skin damage from the sun worth worrying about?<br />
Yes. A sunburn means that the skin has been damaged by ultraviolet (UV) radiation, and exposure to UV radiation from the sun is the number one cause of all types of skin cancers. Some studies suggest that severe sunburns during childhood cause melanoma – the deadliest form of skin cancer – later in life.<br />
Because children's skin is more sensitive than adults' skin, children are more prone to sunburn and skin damage. Fair-haired, pale-skinned, freckled, and green- or blue-eyed children are most at risk for skin damage and cancer from sun exposure, but ultraviolet radiation is dangerous for everyone.<br />
<a href="http://www.blogger.com/null" name="articlesection6"></a>How can I keep my child from getting a sunburn?<br />
It's not hard, but you have to be diligent. A child can get burned after only ten to 15 minutes of exposure, even on a cloudy or cool day.<br />
Dress your child for outdoor activities in long sleeves, pants, and a hat, and apply sunscreen. Keep him in the shade as much as possible, although shade provides only partial protection against sunburn.<br />
The sun is most dangerous between 10 a.m. and 4 p.m., but the skin is exposed to UV rays during all daylight hours, year round, even when it's cloudy.<br />
Put sunscreen on any exposed areas of skin. Choose a sunscreen with an SPF (sun protection factor) of at least 15 and apply it liberally about 15 to 30 minutes before you head outdoors, to give it a chance to be absorbed. Reapply sunscreen every two hours, or more often if your child is sweating a lot or has been in the water.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3699607697659395516.post-25742441874975819082012-05-22T23:48:00.003-07:002012-05-22T23:48:43.285-07:00Do all babies experience separation anxiety?<br />
Yes, to a degree. Separation anxiety is a normal emotional stage of
development that starts when babies begin to understand that things and people
exist even when they're not present – something called "object permanence."<br />
At certain stages, most babies or toddlers will show true anxiety and be
upset at the prospect – or reality – of being separated from a parent. If you
think about separation anxiety in evolutionary terms, it makes sense: A
defenseless baby would naturally get upset at being separated from the person
who protects and cares for him.<br />
In many ways, attitudes about babies and separations are cultural. Western
countries tend to stress autonomy from a very early age. But in many other
cultures, infants are rarely separated from their mother in the first year of
life.<br />
Regardless of the origins of this developmental stage, it's frustrating for
babies and parents. The good news is that separation anxiety will pass and you
can take steps to make it more manageable. And in the meantime, enjoy the
sweetness of knowing that to your child, you're number one.<br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">When does it most commonly occur?</span><br /><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">Babies can show signs of separation anxiety as early as 6 or 7 months, but the
crisis age for most babies peaks between 10 to 18 months. </span></span><span style="font-size: small; font-weight: normal;">Most commonly, separation anxiety strikes when you – or your partner – leave
your child to go to work or run an errand Your baby can also experience separation anxiety at night, safely tucked in her
crib with you in the next room. Separation anxiety usually eases by the time
babies are 24 months old.</span></h3>
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<span style="font-size: small;">How can I help my baby through it?<br /><span style="font-weight: normal;">Several options are available to parents:<br />Minimize separations as much as possible and take your baby along if he
seems to feel anxious. With this option, you're basically waiting for
your baby to outgrow this stage.<br /><br />Set up childcare with people
your baby is familiar with. If you have to leave your baby – for
example, to return to work – try leaving him with people he already knows, like
his father, grandmother, or aunt. Your baby may still protest, but he might
adjust more easily to your absence when surrounded by well-known
faces.<br /><br />Let your baby get to know a new caregiver first.
If you need to leave your child with someone he doesn't know, give him a chance
to get to know his caregiver while you're still around (see details below).<br /></span></span></h3>
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<span style="font-size: small;">How should I prepare my baby for separations?</span><span style="font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: small;">As with any transition, give your baby an opportunity to gradually get used
to the idea. Whether you're leaving her with a family member or a paid childcare
provider, try the following suggestions:</span></span></h3>
<span style="font-size: small; font-weight: normal;">Practice at home. It'll be easier for your baby to cope with
your absence if she's the one who initiates a separation. Let her crawl off to
another room on her own (one where you're sure she'll be safe unsupervised
briefly) and wait for a couple of minutes before going after her.<br /></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small; font-weight: normal;">You can also tell your baby you're leaving a room, where you're going, and
that you'll be back. Either way, your child will learn that everything will be
okay when you're gone for a minute or two – and that you'll always come
back.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-size: small; font-weight: normal;">Build in time for your baby to get comfortable.
Hire a new sitter to visit and play with your baby several times before leaving
them alone for the first time. For your first real outing, ask the sitter to
arrive about 30 minutes before you depart so that she and the baby can be well
engaged before you step out the door.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-size: small; font-weight: normal;">Employ the same approach at a
daycare center or at your nursery, place of worship, or health club.<br /></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small; font-weight: normal;">Always say goodbye. Kiss and hug your baby when you leave
and tell her where you're going and when you'll be back, but don't prolong your
goodbyes. And resist the urge to sneak out the back door. Your baby will only
become more upset if she thinks you've disappeared into thin
air.<br /><br />Keep it light. Your baby is quite tuned in to how
you feel, so show your warmth and enthusiasm for the caregiver you've
chosen.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-size: small; font-weight: normal;">Try not to cry or act upset if your baby starts crying – at least
not while she can see you. You'll both get through this. The caregiver will
probably tell you later that your baby's tears stopped before you were even out
of the driveway.<br /></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small; font-weight: normal;">Once you leave, leave. Repeated trips back into the house or
daycare center to calm your baby will make it harder on you, your child, and the
caregiver.<br /><br />Try a trial at first. Limit the first night
or afternoon out to no more than an hour. As you and your baby become more
familiar with the sitter or the childcare setting, you can extend your
outings.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">How should we handle nighttime separation anxiety?<br /><span style="font-weight: normal;">Your baby's fear of being separated from you at night is very real for him,
so you'll want to do your best to keep the hours preceding bedtime as nurturing
and peaceful (and fun) as possible. In addition:</span></span></h3>
<span style="font-size: small; font-weight: normal;">Spend some extra cuddle time with your baby before bed by reading, snuggling,
and softly singing together.</span><br />
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<br />Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3699607697659395516.post-70047862286140141742012-05-08T05:31:00.001-07:002012-05-08T05:31:30.028-07:00Developmental milestones: Crawling<h3></h3><h3>Crawling</h3><span style="font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: small;">Crawling is your baby's first method of getting around efficiently on his own. In the traditional crawl, he'll start by learning to balance on his hands and knees. Then he'll figure out how to move forward and backward by pushing off with his knees. At the same time, he'll be strengthening the muscles that will soon enable him to walk.<br />
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<h3>When it develops</h3><span style="font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: small;">Most babies learn to crawl between the ages of 7and 10 months. Your baby may opt for another method of locomotion around this time, though – like bottom shuffling (scooting around on her bottom, using a hand behind and a foot in front to propel herself), slithering on her stomach, or rolling across the room.</span></span><br />
<span style="font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: small;">Don't worry about her style; it's getting mobile that's important, no matter how your baby does it. Some babies skip crawling altogether and move directly to pulling up, standing, cruising (furniture walking), and <a href="http://www.babycenter.com/0_developmental-milestone-walking_6507.bc" title="">walking</a>.</span></span><br />
<span style="font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: small;">Since the "Back to Sleep" campaign was initiated in 1994, many babies seem to be crawling later or skipping it completely. (The campaign aims to reduce the risk of <a href="http://www.babycenter.com/baby-sleep-safety" title="">SIDS</a> by encouraging parents to put babies to sleep on their back.)<br />
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<h3>How it develops</h3><span style="font-size: small; font-weight: normal;">Your baby will likely start crawling soon after he's able to <a href="http://www.babycenter.com/0_developmental-milestones-sitting_6505.bc" title="">sit well without support</a> (probably by the time he's 8 months old). After this point, he can hold his head up to look around, and his arm, leg, and back muscles are strong enough to keep him from falling on the floor when he gets up on his hands and knees.<br />
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Over a couple of months, your baby will gradually learn to move confidently from a sitting position to being on all fours, and he'll soon realize he can rock back and forth when his limbs are straight and his trunk is parallel to the floor.<br />
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Somewhere around 9 or 10 months, he'll figure out that pushing off with his knees gives him just the boost he needs to go mobile. As he gains proficiency, he'll learn to go from a crawling position back into a sitting position.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: small; font-weight: normal;">He'll also master the advanced technique that pediatrician William Sears calls "cross-crawling" – moving one arm and the opposite leg together when he moves forward, rather than using an arm and a leg from the same side. After that, practice makes perfect. Look for him to be a really competent crawler by the time he's a year old.<br />
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<h3>What's next</h3><span style="font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: small;">After your baby has mastered crawling, the only thing between her and complete mobility is learning to <a href="http://www.babycenter.com/0_developmental-milestone-walking_6507.bc" title="">walk</a>. To that end, she'll soon begin pulling herself up on everything she can reach, whether it's the coffee table or Grandma's leg. Once she gets the feel of balancing on her legs, she'll be ready to stand on her own and <a href="http://www.babycenter.com/0_keeping-a-cruising-baby-safe_727.bc" title="">cruise</a> while holding on to furniture. Then it's just a matter of time until she's walking, running, jumping, and leaping.</span></span><br />
<a href="" name="articlesection5"></a> <h3>Your role</h3><span style="font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: small;">From the start, long before your baby's ready to crawl, give him plenty of tummy time. Placing your baby on his tummy and playing with him for several minutes a few times a day while he's awake and alert will help to develop muscles that he needs to crawl. Tummy time can also prevent a flat spot from developing on his head, which sometimes happens when infants spend a lot of time on their backs.</span></span><br />
<span style="font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: small;">The best way to encourage crawling – as with reaching and grabbing – is to place toys and other desirable objects (even yourself) just beyond your baby's reach. The American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) also suggests using pillows, boxes, and sofa cushions to create obstacle courses for him to negotiate. This will help improve his confidence, speed, and agility. Just don't leave him alone – if he gets stuck under a pillow or box, he'll be frightened and may be in danger of smothering.<br />
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A crawling baby can get into a lot of mischief. Make sure your house is <a href="http://www.babycenter.com/0_childproofing-around-the-house_460.bc" title="">childproofed</a>, with a special emphasis on stairway gates. Your baby will be drawn to stairs, but they can be dangerous, so keep them off-limits until he's really mastered walking (usually by about 18 months). Even then, supervise him closely. For now, suggests the AAP, create a couple of practice steps with foam blocks or sturdy cardboard boxes covered in fabric.<br />
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You don't have to invest in <a href="http://www.babycenter.com/0_how-to-buy-baby-and-toddler-shoes_60.bc" title="">shoes</a> just yet. Your baby won't need to wear footwear regularly until he's mastered walking.</span></span><br />
<a href="" name="articlesection6"></a> <h3>When to be concerned</h3><span style="font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: small;">Babies develop skills using different methods and different timetables. But if your child hasn't shown an interest in getting mobile by some means (whether it's creeping, crawling, rolling, or scooting), figured out how to move her arms and legs together in a coordinated motion, or learned to use both arms and both legs equally by the time she's a year old, bring it up at her next doctor's appointment. Keep in mind that premature babies may reach this and other milestones several months later than their peers.</span></span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3699607697659395516.post-57629162583352745422012-05-08T03:39:00.001-07:002012-05-08T03:40:10.345-07:00Potty training: What works<br />
To make potty training as smooth a process as possible for you and your toddler,
take a moment to learn what tends to work - and <a href="http://www.babycenter.com/0_potty-training-what-doesnt-work_4398.bc" title="">what doesn't</a>. What
works:<br />
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Waiting till your child is ready</h3>
There's no magic age for being ready to start learning to use the potty. Most
toddlers develop the necessary physical and mental skills between 18 and 24
months, while some kids aren't there until closer to age 3 or even 4. Keep an
eye out for <a href="http://www.babycenter.com/0_potty-training-readiness-checklist_4384.bc" title="">physical, cognitive, and
behavioral signs</a> that your toddler might be ready to give it a
try.<br />
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If your toddler is facing changes such as a new school, a new sibling, or
travel, you may want to wait till the seas are calmer before taking the
plunge.<br />
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Once you do start, if you've been trying for several weeks
without success, that's a sign your toddler's not ready. Wait a few more weeks -
or until you see <a href="http://www.babycenter.com/0_potty-training-readiness-checklist_4384.bc" title="">signs that the time is
right</a> - and try again.<br />
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Making a plan</h3>
Before you even buy your toddler a potty seat, it's important to have a plan
for the training process itself. Decide when and <a href="http://www.babycenter.com/0_the-abcs-of-potty-training_4399.bc" title="">how</a> you want to start, how to
<a href="http://www.babycenter.com/0_handling-potty-training-accidents_4419.bc" title="">handle
accidents</a>, when to back off, and so on.<br />
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At the same time, prepare to
be flexible. There's no way to know how your child will respond to potty
training attempts or what techniques will work best. Keep in mind that as with
most developmental milestones, success doesn't necessarily happen in a linear
fashion - your toddler may make initial progress only to regress at one or more
points along the way.<br />
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Discuss your plan with your child's pediatrician
and daycare provider. They'll probably have plenty of experience and advice to
share. Once you've decided on a strategy, be sure you and everyone else who
takes care of your child sticks to it - barring unexpected setbacks and other <a href="http://www.babycenter.com/0_potty-training-your-questions-answered_4415.bc" title="">potty training
challenges</a>, of course.<br />
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Taking it slow</h3>
Mastering the various steps of potty training can take a long time. Yes, some
children will have it nailed in just a few days, but most need weeks or even
months, especially when they're working on <a href="http://www.babycenter.com/404_how-can-i-help-my-child-stop-wetting-the-bed-at-night_2750.bc" title="">staying
dry at night</a>.<br />
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Don't push your toddler (or let others push him) to get
through potty training faster than he's ready to. Let him take his time and get
used to this new, multipart process. He'll move <a href="http://www.babycenter.com/0_the-abcs-of-potty-training_4399.bc" title="">from one stage to the next</a> at
his own speed.<br />
Of course, it's perfectly all right to try to motivate with gentle reminders
and encouragement. If he balks, though, ease up<br />
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Praising your child</h3>
Throughout potty training, your toddler will respond to positive
reinforcement. Whenever he moves on to a new step or tries to use his potty
(even when he doesn't quite succeed), tell him he's doing well and that you're
proud of him. Compliment him now and then on his dry underpants or diaper.<br />
But be careful not to go overboard: Too much praise might make him nervous
and afraid to fail, which can lead to more accidents and setbacks.<br />
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Accepting that there will be accidents</h3>
It's likely your toddler will have numerous <a href="http://www.babycenter.com/0_handling-potty-training-accidents_4419.bc" title="">accidents</a> before being
completely potty-trained. Don't get angry or punish him. After all, it's only
recently that his nervous system has matured enough for him to perceive the
sensation of a full bladder or rectum and that his muscles have developed
sufficiently to allow him to hold in his urine and stool - and that's if he's on
the early end of the developmental spectrum.<br />
He'll get the hang of the process in due time. When your toddler has an
accident, calmly clean it up and suggest (sweetly) that next time he try using
his potty instead.<br />
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more potty training info click <a href="http://www.babyonline.co.za/a-ztoddler/az-toddler.htm" target="_blank">here</a><br />
<br />Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3699607697659395516.post-36506863034442464472012-05-07T00:05:00.001-07:002012-05-07T00:05:28.326-07:00Top 6 baby ailments and how to handle themNo parent rests easy when their baby is sick – or likes to even think about the possibility. Certain illnesses, however, are so common during the first year that they're almost routine.<br />
Your <a href="http://www.babyonline.co.za/" target="_blank">baby</a> is very likely to experience one or more of the following six conditions during his first year of life. Fortunately, there are things you can do to relieve your <a href="http://www.babyonline.co.za/" target="_blank">baby's</a> discomfort and treat some of the symptoms.<br />
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<h3><b>Constipation</b></h3><br />
<a href="http://www.babycenter.com/0_constipation_79.bc">Constipation</a> is very common, affecting about 30 percent of children at some stage. When it comes to a baby's bowel movements, there's no "normal" number or schedule – only what's normal for your <a href="http://www.babyonline.co.za/" target="_blank">baby</a>. Your baby may pass a stool after every feeding, or she may wait a day or more between bowel movements.<br />
Her individual pattern depends on what she eats and drinks, how active she is, and how quickly she digests her food and then gets rid of waste. With practice, you'll be able to tune in to your <a href="http://www.babyonline.co.za/" target="_blank">baby's</a> unique patterns.<br />
If you're concerned that your baby may be constipated, there are a couple of clues to look for. One clue is less frequent bowel movements than her norm, especially if she hasn't had one in three or more days and is obviously uncomfortable when she does have one. And if she has hard, dry stools that are difficult for her to pass – no matter how frequently – she may be constipated.<br />
If you notice very liquid stools in your child's diaper, don't assume it's diarrhea – it may actually be evidence of constipation. Liquid stools can slip past the blockage in the lower intestine and wind up in your child's diaper.<br />
<a href="http://www.babycenter.com/0_constipation_79.bc">Read more</a> about what causes constipation and how to relieve your baby's constipation.<br />
<a href="http://www.babycenter.com/100_baby-poop-guide_10319406.bc">Check out our Baby Poop Guide</a> to help decode your baby's diaper.<br />
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<h3>Coughs and Colds</h3><br />
It's almost certain that your baby will catch a cold during his first year. There are literally hundreds of viruses that cause colds, and your baby can't fight them off as easily as you can because his immune system is still developing. What's more, babies explore everything with their hands and mouths, giving cold-causing viruses ample opportunity to make their way into your baby's system. Colds are especially common in fall and winter, when babies spend more time indoors – an environment in which viruses can spread more easily from person to person.<br />
The average grown-up gets two to four colds a year; the average child gets six to ten – and up to a dozen when that child is in daycare!<br />
Figuring out whether your baby is battling the common cold, an allergy, or a more serious illness can be tricky. The hallmarks of a cold include a runny nose (with clear or yellowish to greenish mucus), sneezing, and possibly a cough or low fever. More clues:<br />
<ul class="paddedList"><li>Behavior. A child with just a cold is apt to continue playing and eating fairly normally. If it's a more serious illness, he'll likely be less energetic and more cranky. </li>
<li>Gradual onset. A cold creeps up, worsens, and blows over in about 10 days. Illnesses such as flu often have a rapid onset. Allergies tend to go on and on, and they don't cause a fever.</li>
</ul><a href="http://www.babycenter.com/0_colds_78.bc">Read more</a> about how to cut down on coughs and colds, and how to treat them when they do pop up<br />
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<h3>Diaper rash</h3><a href="http://www.babycenter.com/0_diaper-rash_81.bc">Diaper rash</a> is a fact of infant life. Nearly all babies in diapers get diaper rash at some stage. Interestingly, in countries where diapers aren't used, diaper rash is almost unknown. However, here in the developed and bottom-covered world, about 1 in 4 babies develop diaper rash in the first four weeks alone.<br />
A diaper rash isn't a sign that you're a negligent parent, though it can certainly feel that way when you see your baby's smooth, soft skin all rough, red, and sore. Although a baby left in a dirty diaper for too long is more likely to develop diaper rash, any baby with sensitive skin can get a rash, even if her parents are diligent diaper changers.<br />
Even the most absorbent diapers on the market don't pull all of your baby's urine away from the baby's delicate skin. Urine mixed with the bacteria in stool breaks down and forms ammonia, which can be very harsh.<br />
The introduction of new solid foods, which can change the composition of the stool or stool frequency, can also cause diaper rash.<br />
<a href="http://www.babycenter.com/0_diaper-rash_81.bc">Read more</a> for some diaper rash prevention techniques.<br />
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<h3>Diarrhea</h3>One thing about diarrhea: You'll know it when you see it. Unlike the random loose stool, diarrhea tends to be more frequent, looser, and more watery (to very watery). It sometimes has a foul smell, too. (The normal breastfed baby produces stool that's soft but with recognizable poop-like form; it also smells sweetish, like buttermilk, or has no real odor.) A bout of diarrhea can last for several days and is often accompanied by crampy pains.<br />
Acute diarrhea is common in children; up to 1 in 6 children visit their doctor each year because of an episode. Most cases in babies are the result of a bacterial or viral infection.<br />
Diarrhea caused by a viral infection can be accompanied by vomiting, abdominal pain, fever, chills, and achiness. A bacteria infection may be accompanied by cramps, blood in the stool, a fever, and perhaps vomiting. Sometimes food allergies or a reaction to an antibiotic medication causes diarrhea. Excessive juice is a common cause as well; the American Academy of Pediatrics recommends no fruit juice before 6 months, and no more than 4 ounces per day after that.<br />
<a href="http://www.babycenter.com/0_diarrhea_82.bc">Read more</a> about how to treat your baby's diarrhea symptoms.<br />
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<h3>Ear infections</h3>Children get more ear infections (acute otitis media, or AOM) than any other diagnosed illness except the common cold. Eighty to 90 percent of all children get one before age 3, and some unlucky children get them again and again. Why?<br />
First, your baby is physically predisposed to ear infections. The small space behind each eardrum is connected to the back of the throat by a tiny channel called the Eustachian tube. Anything that interferes with the function of the Eustachian tube or blocks normal drainage from the middle ear, as commonly happens with colds or even allergies, can increase the risk of infection.<br />
Babies tend to get ear infections more than toddlers and preschoolers because the Eustachian tubes are quite flat in a baby. As a baby's head grows, the tube tilts, and the steeper angle makes it easier to ventilate the middle ear.<br />
Ear infections are also more likely when your child is exposed to smoking, if he attends daycare, or you bottle-feed him while he's lying down. The prolonged use of a pacifier also seems to increase the risk of AOM. And sometimes an ear infection occurs out of the blue, for no apparent reason.<br />
The common symptoms of an ear infection include:<br />
<ul><li>A sudden change in behavior (crying and irritability) </li>
<li>Older babies may pull or rub their ears </li>
<li>Fever </li>
<li>Feeling sick or vomiting, generally feeling ill, and sometimes diarrhea</li>
</ul><a href="http://www.babycenter.com/0_ear-infections-in-babies_83.bc">Read more</a> about how ear infections are treated and ways to prevent them.<br />
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<h3>Vomiting</h3>Almost all babies throw up at some time or another. Vomiting is usually more forceful and of greater quantity than if your baby is just spitting up some of her latest meal. If your baby seems distressed when this is happening, she's probably vomiting. Spitting up doesn't faze most babies at all.<br />
Unless it's persistent, vomiting is seldom dangerous, and it has many different possible causes. It can be a sign of illness (such as viral gastroenteritis, a urinary tract infection, an ear infection, or something more serious) or of problems with feeding or just feeding too much. Other possible causes include an allergy, ingesting something poisonous, or even just coughing or crying too much. A very upset baby can literally "make herself sick."<br />
It's not always easy to pinpoint the cause of vomiting, so it's best to look for other symptoms as well. A viral infection causing vomiting typically brings on diarrhea or fever, for example. Food-related vomiting happens soon after meals.<br />
<a href="http://www.babycenter.com/0_vomiting_9955.bc">Read more</a> about what may cause your baby to vomit and how to help her.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3699607697659395516.post-21055196030873978852012-05-03T01:21:00.001-07:002012-05-03T01:21:37.498-07:00Infant first aid for choking and CPR: An illustrated guide<em>Reviewed by emergency services experts at the American Red Cross in November 2011. Portions of content provided by the Red Cross.</em><br />
We all hope we'll never be put in the position of having to save a baby's life, but it could happen. Babies can and do choke on food and toys, slip under the water in the tub or a pool, and get caught in drawstrings and curtain cords.<br />
This step-by-step guide explains the basics of first aid for choking and CPR, but please don't rely on it as your sole source of information. Set aside a few hours to take an <a href="http://www.babycenter.com/0_infant-and-child-cpr-classes_9455.bc" title="">infant and child CPR course</a> to learn and practice the proper techniques. These techniques differ depending on the age of the child, and doing them improperly can be harmful.<br />
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<strong>The following instructions are for babies younger than 12 months old.</strong> To find out what to do when an older child is choking or needs CPR, see our <a href="http://www.babycenter.com/0_first-aid-for-choking-and-cpr-an-illustrated-guide-for-age-1_11241.bc">illustrated guide to CPR for children age 12 months and older</a>.<br />
<a href="" name="articlesection1"></a> <h3>Choking</h3><strong>Step 1: Assess the situation quickly.</strong><br />
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If a baby is suddenly unable to cry or cough, something is probably blocking her airway, and you'll need to help her get it out. She may make odd noises or no sound at all while opening her mouth. Her skin may turn bright red or blue.<br />
If she's coughing or <a href="http://www.babycenter.com/0_gagging-in-babies_9197.bc" title="">gagging</a>, it means her airway is only partially blocked. If that's the case, let her continue to cough. Coughing is the most effective way to dislodge a blockage.<br />
If the baby isn't able to cough up the object, ask someone to call 911 or the local emergency number while you begin back blows and chest thrusts (see step 2, below).<br />
If you're alone with the baby, give two minutes of care, then call 911.<br />
On the other hand, if you suspect that the baby's airway is closed because her throat has swollen shut, call 911 immediately. She may be having an <a href="http://www.babycenter.com/0_anaphylactic-shock_11221.bc" title="">allergic reaction</a> – to food or to an insect bite, for example – or she may have an illness, such as <a href="http://www.babycenter.com/0_croup_1615.bc" title="">croup</a>.<br />
Also call 911 right away if the baby is at high risk for heart problems.<br />
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<strong>Step 2: Try to dislodge the object with back blows and chest thrusts.</strong><br />
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<em>First do back blows</em><br />
If a baby is conscious but can't cough, cry, or breathe and you believe something is trapped in his airway, carefully position him faceup on one forearm, cradling the back of his head with that hand.<br />
Place the other hand and forearm on his front. He is now sandwiched between your forearms.<br />
Use your thumb and fingers to hold his jaw and turn him over so that he's facedown along the other forearm. Lower your arm onto your thigh so that the baby's head is lower than his chest.<br />
Using the heel of your hand, deliver five firm and distinct back blows between the baby's shoulder blades to try to dislodge the object. Maintain support of his head and neck by firmly holding his jaw between your thumb and forefinger.<br />
Next, place your free hand (the one that had been delivering the back blows) on the back of the baby's head with your arm along his spine. Carefully turn him over while keeping your other hand and forearm on his front<br />
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<em>Then do chest thrusts</em><br />
Use your thumb and fingers to hold his jaw while sandwiching him between your forearms to support his head and neck. Lower your arm that is supporting his back onto your opposite thigh, still keeping the baby's head lower than the rest of his body.<br />
<img align="right" alt="" border="0" height="200" src="http://assets.babycenter.com/i/m/misc/cpr-back.gif" width="150" /> Place the pads of two or three fingers in the center of the baby's chest, just below an imaginary line running between his nipples. To do a chest thrust, push straight down on the chest about 1 1/2 inches. Then allow the chest to come back to its normal position.<br />
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Do five chest thrusts. Keep your fingers in contact with the baby's breastbone. The chest thrusts should be smooth, not jerky.<br />
<em>Repeat back blows and chest thrusts</em><br />
Continue alternating five back blows and five chest thrusts until the object is forced out or the baby starts to cough forcefully, cry, or breathe on his own. If he's coughing, let him try to cough up the object.<br />
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<em>If the baby becomes unconscious</em><br />
If a baby who is choking on something becomes unconscious, you'll need to do what's called modified CPR. Here's how to do modified CPR on a baby:<br />
Open his mouth and look for an object. If you can see an object, remove it with your little finger.<br />
Give him two rescue breaths. If the air doesn't go in (you don't see his chest rise), tilt his head and try two rescue breaths again.<br />
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If his chest still doesn't rise, do 30 chest compressions.<br />
Look in his mouth and remove the object if you see it. Give him two more rescue breaths.<br />
Repeat the chest compressions and so on, until help arrives.<br />
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<h3>How to perform CPR</h3><strong>What is CPR?</strong><br />
CPR stands for cardiopulmonary resuscitation. This is the lifesaving measure you can take to save a baby who shows no signs of life (consciousness or effective breathing).<br />
CPR uses chest compressions and "rescue" breaths to make oxygen-rich blood circulate through the brain and other vital organs until emergency medical personnel arrive. Keeping oxygenated blood circulating helps prevent brain damage – which can occur within a few minutes – and death.<br />
CPR isn't hard to do. Follow these steps:<br />
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<strong>Step 1: Check the baby's condition.</strong><br />
Is the baby conscious? Flick her foot or gently tap on her shoulder and call out. If she doesn't respond, have someone call 911 or the local emergency number. (If you're alone with the baby, give two minutes of care as described below, then call 911 yourself.)<br />
Swiftly but gently place the baby on her back on a firm, flat surface.<br />
Make sure she isn't <a href="http://www.babycenter.com/0_severe-bleeding_11234.bc" title="">bleeding</a> severely. If she is, take measures to stop the bleeding by applying pressure to the area. Don't administer CPR until the bleeding is under control.<br />
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<strong>Step 2: Open the baby's airway.</strong><br />
Tilt the baby's head back with one hand and lift his chin slightly with the other. (You don't have to tilt a baby's head back very far to open the airway.)<br />
Check for signs of breathing for no more than ten seconds.<br />
To check for breathing in a baby, put your head down next to his mouth, looking toward his feet. Look to see whether his chest is rising, and listen for breathing sounds. If he's breathing, you should be able to feel his breath on your cheek.<br />
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<strong>Step 3: Give two gentle "rescue" breaths.</strong><br />
If the baby isn't breathing, give her two little breaths, each lasting just one second. Cover the baby's nose and mouth with your mouth and gently exhale into her lungs only until you see her chest rise, pausing between rescue breaths to let the air flow back out.<br />
Remember that a baby's lungs are much smaller than yours, so it takes much less than a full breath to fill them. Breathing too hard or too fast can force air into the baby's stomach.<br />
If her chest doesn't rise, her airway is blocked. Give her first aid for choking, described above.<br />
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<strong>Step 4: Do 30 chest compressions.</strong><br />
<img align="right" alt="" border="0" height="160" src="http://assets.babycenter.com/i/m/misc/chest2.gif" width="160" /> With the baby still lying on his back, place the pads of two or three fingers in the center of his chest, just below an imaginary line running between his nipples.<br />
With the pads of your fingers on that spot, compress the chest about 1 1/2 inches. Push straight down. Compressions should be smooth, not jerky.<br />
Do 30 chest compressions at the rate of 100 per minute. When you complete 30 compressions, give two rescue breaths (step 3, above). (Each cycle of chest compressions and rescue breaths should take about 24 seconds.)<br />
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<strong>Step 5: Repeat compressions and breaths.</strong><br />
<img alt="" class="tinyImageLeft" src="http://assets.babycenter.com/ims/2010/12decb/mouth1.gif?width=128" /> Repeat the sequence of 30 compressions and two breaths. If you're alone with the baby, call 911 or the local emergency number after two minutes of care.<br />
Continue the sequence of compressions and breaths until help arrives, you find an obvious sign of life, an AED (automated external defibrillator) is ready to use, the scene becomes unsafe, or you are too exhausted to continue.<br />
Even if the baby seems fine by the time help arrives, a doctor will need to check her to make sure that her airway is completely clear and she hasn't sustained any internal injuries.<br />
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For more information on pregnancy, birth, baby and toddler, <a href="http://www.babycenter.com/0_infant-first-aid-for-choking-and-cpr-an-illustrated-guide_9298.bc?page=2" target="_blank">click here</a>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3699607697659395516.post-33681148529077868792012-05-02T00:46:00.001-07:002012-05-02T00:55:28.428-07:00When is Honey Safe for your Baby?<h1 align="center">
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<span lang="en-us" xml:lang="en-us">A</span><span class="goog_qs-tidbit goog_qs-tidbit-0"> commonly asked question when it comes to foods for infants is</span> about giving babies honey. Honey should never be given to a child under the age of 12 months old. In fact, The American Academy of Pediatrics advises that honey should not be added to food, water, or formula that is fed to infants younger than 12 months of age. This technically, applies even to honey in baked or processed food goods. The AAP statement says "Raw or unpasteurized honey (Infants younger than 12 months should avoid all sources of honey)". <em>AAP Pediatric Nutrition Handbook.<br />
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There are many who feel that honey is really not a danger to babies because in one form or another, honey has been given to babies well under the age of 12 months old. There are many cultures that continue to give babies honey almost from birth and incorporate it early into baby's diet. We have outlined a few facts about Honey and the possible risk to babies. While we may be overly conservative and caution against giving a baby under 12 months of age honey, we recommend that you thoroughly discuss this with your pediatrician. <br />
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Does Honey Contain Botulism?</h2>
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Honey may contain botulism spores which can lead to botulism poisoning.<em><strong> </strong></em>There are some areas of the country (United States) where the possible contamination of honey with botulism spores is higher due to the soil. Soil contains botulism spores/bacteria and the flora that bees use to feed on grows in that soil. Also, disturbed soil containing the spores may directly settle upon hives for example - and thus the spores themselves could contaminate the honey as well. Honey is mostly consumed in raw form and is typically not pasteurized, sterilized or radiated. Even pasteurized honey can contain botulism spores and should be not be given to children under the age of 12 months. <span lang="en-us" xml:lang="en-us"></span>(<a ?target=" _blank" href="http://www.eatwelleatsafe.ca/pathogens/botulism.htm">http://www.eatwelleatsafe.ca/pathogens/botulism.htm</a>)</div>
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Adults can handle a small amount of botulinium spores easier than babies.</h2>
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In adults, the amount of botulism spores ingested (if any) from honey is really quite negligible because we have mature intestines. The intestines of an adult contain enough acids to counteract the production of toxins the botulism bacteria produce. Once an infant reaches the age of 1 year or older, their intestines have a balance of acids that help destroy and fight off any toxins that the botulism bacteria produce. </div>
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<a href="http://wholesomebabyfood.momtastic.com/infantbotulismhoney.htm" target="_blank">Are Corn Syrup and Molasses Safe for Baby Under age 12 months?</a><br />
<a href="http://wholesomebabyfood.momtastic.com/infantbotulismhoney.htm" target="_blank">Is Maple Syrup Safe for Baby Under age 12 months?</a></span></h2>
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<span style="color: #0000ed;">Top 10 Kids
Activities</span></h2>
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There are plenty of attractions and activities you and your family with enjoy
when exploring Cape Town. To cut it down to only ten was really a tough choice.
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For giving you a more detailed insiders view of the many options I narrowed
down the Cape Town kids activites to five indoors activities for rainy days and
five outdoors activities for sunny days. <br />
So here they are <b>our favorite kids activities for warm sunny day</b>s in
Cape Town: <br />
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<span style="color: #da000e;">1. Want to hold an owl or an eagle or learn about the
world’s fastest animal?</span></h3>
<img align="right" alt="Child holding an eagle at Spier Eagle Encounter" height="176" src="http://www.expatcapetown.com/images/spier_eagle_kids.jpg" style="border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; margin: 8px 0px 0px 12px;" width="236" /> Then a drive to nearby <a href="http://www.spier.co.za/what_to_do_at_spier/eagle_encounters/">Spier
Estate</a> in Stellenbosch. Their Eagle Encounter is top on the list with my
children. <b>Eagle Encounters</b> (021 858 1826) is a bird rescue center where
you can join interactive bird shows and are allowed to hold an eagle are always
coming tops on my happy kids activities list.
At Spier there is lots of space to run around or play ball, many restaurants,
little craft shops, a duckpond, a river running through the estate, a playground
and huge picnic area. My kids always enjoy the 40 minute drive from Cape Town
through the lovely hills of the Cape Winelands and arrive at this wonderful huge
playing field with all the amenities which make you appreciate living in South
Africa. <br />
Then there is also the fabulous <b>Cheetah Outreach Center</b> (021 809 1188)
where your kids will love to see the fastest land animals on earth. <a href="http://www.cheetah.co.za/">More info about the Cheetah Outreach Center
here.</a> <br />
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<span style="color: #da000e;">2. See and touch big birds and learn about
ostriches</span> </h3>
<img align="right" alt="With kids at West Coast Ostrich Ranch" height="176" src="http://www.expatcapetown.com/images/west_coast_ostrich_farm.jpg" style="border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; margin: 8px 0px 0px 12px;" width="236" /> Have a leisurely drive out to the North of Cape Town to the <a href="http://www.ostrichranch.co.za/">West Coast Ostrich Ranch.</a> This ostrich
farm (021 972 1669) is only 15 minutes from Blouberg or 30 minutes from the city
of Cape Town. The kids activities here are: learning about the biggest birds on
earth, getting a fun guided tour, standing on an ostrich egg and even sitting on
an ostrich. There you can let the children run loose at the <b>huge play
area</b> with climbing frame and sandpit.
Find your special gemstones at the Scratch Patch or -if you will not get in
trouble with your kids;)- try the delicious ostrich fillet or ostrich schnitzel
at the farmhouse restaurant. This is actually a great place for a children’s
party too. <br />
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<span style="color: #da000e;">3. Ever fancied a camel ride or having a snake
hanging around your shoulders?</span></h3>
<img align="right" alt="Donkey rides at Imhoff Farm" height="176" src="http://www.expatcapetown.com/images/imhoff_kids.jpg" style="border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; margin: 8px 0px 0px 12px;" width="236" />
Then head straight away to <a href="http://www.imhofffarm.co.za/">Imhoff’s Farm </a>in Kommetjie. This farm
(021 783 4545) in Kommetjie is a small village in itself with kids activities
and entertainment galore.
You can drive down there along the Atlantic Seabord via Hout Bay over the
fabulous Chapman’s Peak Drive you will have a day full of sightseeing and maybe
you will spot a whale or a dolphin near the coast too. From Nordhooek you can
easily drive via Ou Kaapse Weg around to Kommetjie. The trip will take roughly
45 minutes from the city center.<br />
At the grounds there are several shops and art galleries as well as an
organic coffee shop, <b>marimba entertainment, playground, horse, donkey and
camel rides, face painting and a very interesting snake park</b>. The kids are
always entertained and there you really can relax while the children have a ball
of a time as well. And Paintball, anyone?:) <br />
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<span style="color: #da000e;">4. Do you long for a relaxing outing to the
beach?</span> </h3>
<img align="right" alt="Kids playing at a Cape Town Beach" height="176" src="http://www.expatcapetown.com/images/cape_town_beach_kids.jpg" style="border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; margin: 8px 0px 0px 12px;" width="236" /> Then you definitely must go to Simonstown’s Boulders Beach, where
your kids will love to swim in the shallow waters with <a href="http://www.expatcapetown.com/african-penguin.html" target="_new">penguins.</a> The little creatures are not very shy, although you
should keep your children from trying to catch them;)
And there are <b>many other beautiful beaches with tidal pools for safe
swimming in and around Cape Town</b>. Or why not go to one of the best,
cleanest, most popular beaches like the <a href="http://www.expatcapetown.com/cape-town-beach.html" target="_new">Blue Flag
Beaches?</a> <br />
Check them out and you will have a happy day with your kids. <br />
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<span style="color: #da000e;">5. Ride down the fantastic toboggan track in
Tygervalley</span></h3>
<img align="right" alt="Getting pulled uphill on the Cape Town Toboggan" height="176" src="http://www.expatcapetown.com/images/cape_town_toboggan.jpg" style="border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; margin: 8px 0px 0px 12px;" width="236" /> This is one outdoors activity especially for the bigger kids. But
the little ones will enjoy that too, if mummy or daddy joins them.
<a href="http://www.toboggan.co.za/">Cool Runnings</a> is operating this <b>1,25 km
long bob-sled track</b> in a steel half pipe where kids just scream for the fun
it is. This track is only open for the last couple of years and is very modern
and well maintained. <br />
Kids over 8years old can go down alone, while little ones have to be
accompanied by an (usually equally excited) adult. So have fun, but do not
forget your sun protection as even you cool down riding down the track at speed.
<br />
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<br />
Now to cover all eventualities of a <b>rainy day</b> or more like
the sun hiding behind clouds or the wind being blowing to strongly here are… …
<b>the best indoors kids activities in Cape Town</b> <br />
<br />
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<span style="color: #da000e;">6. Go down to the waterfront and enjoy the colorful
underwater world</span></h3>
<img align="right" alt="At the kelp forest in Cape Town Aquarium" height="176" src="http://www.expatcapetown.com/images/cape_town_aquarium.jpg" style="border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; margin: 8px 0px 0px 12px;" width="236" /> At Cape Town’s <a href="http://www.aquarium.co.za/">Two Oceans Aquarium</a> you will enjoy watching
the funny penguins or relax while watching the movements of the <b>huge kelp
forest</b>. Watch the groupers and stingrays swimming along the big sharks in
the huge tank and occasionally <b>you might even spot divers at the shark
tank</b>. Daily arts and crafts activities also keep the young children happy.
There is a <b>good family restaurant</b> and if you want to come here more
often than twice a year get a family membership which is really worth it, as
your children also could join the very popular sleeping over events in the
aquarium too. <br />
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<span style="color: #da000e;">7. Visit the planetarium and the South African Museum
</span></h3>
This <a href="http://www.iziko.org.za/museums/south-african-museum">Natural History
museum</a> with its excellent dinosaur exhibition, the <b>whale well and
underwater exhibition, displays of South African rock carvings</b> and showcase
of the life of the indigenous people in South Africa. Surely there are many
other interesting museums in Cape Town, but this one comes up tops for kids
every time. There are some kids activites sheets available at the reception
desk.
The adjoining <a href="http://www.iziko.org.za/static/page/current-shows">planetarium</a> (021
481 3929) offers great shows for kids, where kids will be amazed by the
<b>interactive show</b> and all the little lights and stars in the domed
darkened room. The chairs are reclining, but the shows are so interesting you
will not be able to snooze;) <br />
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<span style="color: #da000e;">8. Ready for more science and
interactions?</span></h3>
Unfortunately the <a href="http://www.mtnsciencentre.org.za/">MTN Science Center </a>(021 300 3200)
in Canal Walk closed down, but there is still the Experilab in
HighStreetShopping Center in Bellville. There are lots of hands-on-displays and
kids are encouraged to experiment and explore physical concepts. This is a great
place for kids of every age and you certainly will find many new things which
inspire kids to experiment.
Until new premises are found for the Science Center, we will have to wait for
a great place in Cape Town where kids can do science experiments in a safe
environment. There are organized kids activities and birthday parties possible
at Experilab. Watch this space for the new upcoming Science Center in Cape Town.
We will keep you posted:) <br />
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<span style="color: #da000e;">9. A bit of culture for the kids? How about seeing a
play?</span></h3>
Take your kids to see one of the famous childrens’ shows at
the <a href="http://www.baxter.co.za/">Baxter Theater </a>in Rondebosch during school
holidays.
There are daily shows in English (021 685 7880) during the holidays for the
young children from the age of 3. These are shows like "Pinocchio" or
"Goldilocks and the three Bears" and they run usually in the late mornings.<br />
The shows are sometimes interactive too, which my children enjoyed a lot. The
theatre auditorium is beautiful with plush comfortable seats. Then there are
usually several shows for children at the Artscape Theatre in the CBD during the
school holidays too.<br />
And not to forget a bit of magic! Great magic shows are performed in Cape
Town by the College of Magic in Rondebosch. The 2011 Champs will perform at the
Baxter Theatre on September 25, 2011. Do not miss this exciting event for kids!
<br />
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<span style="color: #da000e;">10. Last but not least, how about
Ten-Pin-Bowling?</span></h3>
This is a great family activity for rainy days
and very popular activity with kids in Cape Town too. So be sure to call ahead
and book a place at Let's go bowling.
<br />
There are bowling alleys in Stadium on Main in Claremont an in the Tyger
Valley and also in the N1 City and in the Somerset West <a href="http://www.expatcapetown.com/shopping-centers.html" target="_new">shopping
centers.</a> The bowling alleys are modern and you will have fun competing with
your children in a game. There are lighter balls for the younger kids and frames
for them too to help the ball rolling down the alley to get a great strike.<br />
Well, <b>there would be so many more great kids activites for the Cape Town
area</b>, like going to the movie theatre, having fun at Ratanga Junction,
joining arts, pottery and magician classes, but hey, <b>these were my favorite
top ten kids activities to get them happy and entertained during school
holidays.</b><br />
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<br />Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3699607697659395516.post-92003325488206784302012-04-20T00:04:00.001-07:002012-04-20T00:04:21.308-07:00Avocado Baby Food Recipes<b>Avocado Baby Food Recipes - First Foods</b><br />
For a nutritionally complete and tasty meal for your <a href="http://babyonline.co.za/" target="_blank">baby</a> food beginner - with an ideal consistency, too - you need do no more than slice open an avocado and spoon its creamy flesh straight into your baby's mouth!<br />
Yes, it's as easy as that... you do not need to cook the fruit or add anything to it!<br />
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To make it more manageable for baby's very first meal, spoon it into a bowl and mash it with a fork. For a smoother texture still, you can puree it in a food processor.<br />
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If you are introducing avocado to your baby after the recommended age of 6 months, you shouldn't really need to add anything to thin the consistency. But if you DO feel the need to make it a bit more 'soupy', just add a little breast milk or formula as you mash or puree the fruit.<br />
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<b>First Avocado Baby Food - Creamy Fruit Mash </b><br />
1 apple or pear, peeled, cored and diced<br />
1/2 avocado, peeled<br />
little water<br />
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Place the prepared apple or pear into a small saucepan and add a little water.<br />
Simmer gently until the fruit is tender.<br />
Transfer the apple or pear to a food processor and puree until smooth.<br />
Mash the avocado with the fruit puree and serve.<br />
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<b>First Avocado Baby Food - Melon Delight </b><br />
1 small slice Cantaloupe melon<br />
1/2 avocado, peeled<br />
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Remove the skin from the melon, then simply mash the avocado and melon together.<br />
This tastes wonderful with a touch of ground ginger!<br />
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<b>First Avocado Baby Food - Sweet Potato and Avocado Dinner </b><br />
1 small sweet potato<br />
1 avocado, peeled<br />
<br />
Bake the sweet potato in its skin for 45 mins - 1 hour until tender.<br />
Cool, then remove the flesh from the skin and mash with the avocado.<br />
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<b>First Avocado Baby Food - No-Cook Fruity Treat </b><br />
1 small, ripe banana<br />
1 avocado<br />
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Avocado as an ideal food to take when you're travelling with your <a href="http://babyonline.co.za/" target="_blank">baby</a>. An unpeeled avocado doesn't need to be kept cool and you can just slice it and serve it to your <a href="http://babyonline.co.za/" target="_blank">baby</a> when you're out and about. You don't even need a bowl!<br />
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Read more:<a href="http://www.homemade-baby-food-recipes.com/avocado-baby-food.html#ixzz1sYsNsje8" target="_blank"> http://www.homemade-baby-food-recipes.com/avocado-baby-food.html#ixzz1sYsNsje8</a>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3699607697659395516.post-88665085017808936992012-03-14T23:52:00.002-07:002012-03-14T23:52:14.347-07:00Car seat safety: The biggest mistakes parents make, and how to avoid them.<br />
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<h3>
Not using a safety seat consistently</h3>
"We were only going to the grocery store ..." "He hates to ride in his car
seat, so just this once I didn't make him ..." "She was having a meltdown, so I
took her out of her seat for a minute to calm her down." Safety experts hear
these words all too often from distraught parents after tragedy has struck.
Remember, a one-time lapse can result in a lifetime of regret.<br />
<br />In any case, using a safety seat consistently and correctly is the law. All
50 states require that children up to 3 years of age (or 40 inches tall in
Kentucky) ride in car seats in private vehicles, and many have laws requiring car seats or booster seats until a child is considerably older.<br /><br />There's good reason for
that. Every year, tens of thousands of children are injured in car crashes, and
about a thousand are killed. In fact, auto accidents are by far the leading
cause of death for American children.<br /><br /><b>Using an old or secondhand seat</b><br /><br />
That safety seat you scored at a garage sale for a fraction of its original
price may seem like a bargain, but it could cost your child his life. The same
goes for that older-model seat your sister gave you after her child outgrew
it.<br /><br />Not only are used seats unlikely to come with the manufacturer's
instructions (vital for correct installation), but they could be missing
important parts, have been involved in an accident (even unseen damage can
affect the seat's functioning), fall short of current safety standards, or have
been recalled due to faulty design. Moreover, plastic gets brittle as it gets
older, so a seat that's too old could break in a crash.<br /><br />If you must use a
secondhand seat, make sure it has the original instructions (or contact the
manufacturer for a replacement copy), has all its parts (check the manual), has
never been involved in a serious accident, and hasn't been recalled. (<a href="http://www-odi.nhtsa.dot.gov/cars/problems/recalls/childseat.cfm" target="_blank">Check your seat's recall status here.</a>)<br /><br />In addition, to
avoid the dangers of aging plastic, SafetyBeltSafe U.S.A. recommends sticking
with car seats that are ideally less than five years old and definitely less
than ten years old. You can usually find an expiration date stamped somewhere on
the seat. <a href="http://www.babycenter.com/0_car-seat-safety-the-biggest-mistakes-parents-make-and-how-to_64875.bc?showAll=true" target="_blank">read more</a><br />Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3699607697659395516.post-11859439113567628422012-03-11T23:42:00.001-07:002012-03-11T23:42:20.866-07:00Snoring babies more likely to develop behavioral problemsMon, Mar 5 (HealthDay News) -- Infants and toddlers who snore or have other breathing issues while sleeping are more likely to develop behavioral problems by the age of 7, new research suggests.<br />
Those issues can include hyperactivity and inattention, emotional problems such as anxiety and depression, conduct problems such as rule-breaking and aggressiveness and problems with peer relationships, researchers said. The study is published online March 5 and in the April print issue of <em>Pediatrics</em>.<br />
The researchers assessed more than 11,000 children in England, who were followed for six years, beginning when the kids were 6 months old. Parents were asked about snoring, mouth breathing and witnessed apnea -- when a child takes abnormally long pauses in breathing during sleep -- at various points throughout infancy and childhood. Taken together, those symptoms are called sleep-disordered breathing.<br />
Parents also filled out questionnaires about their child's behavior at the ages of 4 and 7.<br />
Those who had the worst sleep-disordered breathing were almost twice as likely to have behavioral issues at age 7 as kids whose breathing was normal. Kids were considered to have behavioral issues if their parent's ratings were in the top 10 percent, relative to kids their age, for problem behaviors.<br />
"Parents should pay close attention to their child's sleep, and if you think something is going on you should consult a pediatrician or a sleep specialist," said study author Karen Bonuck, a professor of family and social medicine at Albert Einstein College of Medicine of Yeshiva University in New York City.<br />
The research showed only an association between sleep-disordered breathing and behavioral problems, not causality. However, there could be several reasons for the connection, Bonuck said.<br />
By interfering with the quality of rest, sleep-disordered breathing leaves kids overtired. That may contribute to behavioral issues, such as being easily distracted, hyperactivity and irritability.<br />
Previous research has also suggested that sleep-disordered breathing affects brain physiology via a lack of oxygen to the brain, carbon dioxide buildup and abnormal gas exchanges, Bonuck explained. For children, that may have a long-lasting impact. "We are sleeping to restore our brains, and sleep-disordered breathing interferes with that process," Bonuck explained. "For kids, these are critical periods in brain development."<br />
Heidi Connolly, division chief for pediatric sleep medicine at University of Rochester Medical Center in New York, said the study adds to a growing body of research showing that snoring, mouth breathing and sleep apnea in children should be taken seriously. "These findings echo many of the other studies that show having sleep apnea and symptoms of snoring are bad for neurodevelopmental outcomes in children," Connolly said.<br />
While snoring is a symptom of sleep apnea, it can have other causes, such as nasal allergies. Other studies suggest that even snoring alone, without apnea, can cause kids to do worse developmentally, she added. <a href="http://www.babycenter.com/204_snoring-babies-more-likely-to-develop-behavioral-problems_10364492.bc?scid=momsbaby_20120306_B:3&pe=MlV6R2xvb3wyMDEyMDMwNl9C" target="_blank">read more</a>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3699607697659395516.post-35396883888538175322012-03-09T01:37:00.002-08:002012-03-09T01:37:48.014-08:00Buckle up your kids or go to jail<br />
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Cape motorists could face jail if they don’t buckle up
their children while on the road. </div>
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The province and the City of Cape Town want to criminally
charge and prosecute motorists, including parents, caught with children not
wearing seatbelts. In cases of car crashes where there are severe injuries
or death, the charges could include jail time. The Western Cape transport department said the case of
Jacob Humphreys, who was jailed for 20 years after 10 children died in his
minibus taxi, paved the way for prosecutors to get tough on errant motorists.
Humphreys jumped a queue at a level crossing, colliding with an oncoming train.</div>
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The plan has received support from several quarters.
Arrive Alive spokesman Ashref Ismail said: “Seatbelts are absolutely vital. It
goes without saying that we would support every possible legal means to clamp
down on this.” Ismail said research showed that in countries where
motorists complied with seatbelt laws there was a substantial drop in
fatalities. In 80 percent of car crash cases treated at the Red Cross
Children’s Hospital, the children were not wearing seatbelts.<br /><br /></div>
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<b>CRACK DOWN ON DRIVERS </b></div>
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Transport MEC Robin Carlisle wants prosecutors to crack
down on parents and other drivers who “fail to protect children” by buckling
them up as the law requires. Following taxi driver Jacob Humphreys's conviction and
sentence of 30 years for murder - after 10 schoolchildren were killed in his
taxi when it was hit by a train at the Buttskop level crossing in Blackheath in
2010 - Carlisle has asked his legal team to investigate the precedent in
relation to the widespread failure to strap in children. Carlisle said: “We have been emboldened by the Humphreys
verdict, and believe extremely strongly that the legal concept of 'criminal
negligence' should be considered by prosecutors in every possible relevant case,
when bringing drivers to book.</div>
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“Drivers - and this includes parents - who are criminally
negligent with regard to their children must understand that they could the full
force of criminal law,” Carlisle said. “More children are dying prematurely in car accidents
than from any other cause.”<br /></div>
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<strong>“Do parents leave their sanity behind when they
climb into a car with their kids?” </strong></div>
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“Between 200 and 300 children are treated each year at
the Red Cross Children's Hospital for serious injuries sustained in crashes -
and over 80 percent were not restrained in any way. It shows how absolutely
clueless SA drivers are.“If they had any idea of what happens in an accident -
about the horror that goes on inside and eventually outside their cars - they
would never do that.” Legal sources canvassed by the Cape Argus, including
within the National Prosecuting Authority (NPA), confirmed that Carlisle's plan
was possible within current legislation.<br /></div>
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<strong>Carlisle is now planning to request that the NPA
takes several hard measures.</strong> </div>
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First, parents caught endangering their children
typically face fines only. But Carlisle will now request the NPA to ask its
prosecutors at courts around the province to no longer offer admission of guilt
fines only. Instead, prosecutors are to demand that parents and other drivers
appear in court. </div>
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In cases where the state could prove severe negligence -
like allowing a child to stand on a front seat on a highway, for example - the
parent or driver could still only receive a fine, but could then carry a
criminal record thereafter. Second, in cases in which children who were not strapped
in are killed or seriously injured, the actual traffic violation of not buckling
a child in would become incidental. Instead, a parent or driver could be charged
with one of several criminal charges: “Reckless or Negligent Driving”, “Culpable
Homicide” or even - in particularly egregious cases - “Murder”. <a href="http://www.iol.co.za/lifestyle/family/parenting/buckle-up-your-kids-or-go-to-jail-1.1252691" target="_blank">read more</a></div>
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<br />Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3699607697659395516.post-6313190295576041022012-03-07T23:29:00.001-08:002012-03-07T23:29:54.487-08:00<h3><span style="font-size: small;">When should I introduce solid food to my baby?</span><br />
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<span style="font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: small;">You can introduce solids any time between 4 and 6 months if your baby is ready. Until then, breast milk or formula provides all the calories and nourishment your baby needs and can handle. His digestive system simply isn't ready for solids until he nears his half-birthday.<br />
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The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends that babies be breastfed exclusively for at least six months – though parents will attest that some babies are eager and ready to eat solids earlier.</span></span><span style="font-size: small;"><br />
How will I know when my baby's ready?<br />
</span><br />
<span style="font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: small;">Your baby will give you clear signs when he's ready to move beyond liquid-only nourishment. Cues to look for include:</span></span><br />
<ul><li><span style="font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: small;">Head control. Your baby needs to be able to keep his head in a steady, upright position. </span></span></li>
<li><span style="font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: small;">Losing the "extrusion reflex." To keep solid food in his mouth and then swallow it, your baby needs to stop using his tongue to push food out of his mouth.</span></span></li>
<li><span style="font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: small;">Sitting well when supported. Even if he's not quite ready for a highchair, your baby needs to be able to sit upright to swallow well. </span></span></li>
<li><span style="font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: small;">Chewing motions. Your baby's mouth and tongue develop in sync with his digestive system. To start solids, he should be able to move food to the back of his mouth and swallow. As he learns to swallow efficiently, you may notice less drooling – though if your baby's teething, you might still see a lot of drool. </span></span></li>
<li><span style="font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: small;">Significant weight gain. Most babies are ready to eat solids when they've doubled their birth weight and are at least 4 months old. </span></span></li>
<li><span style="font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: small;">Growing appetite. He seems hungry – even with eight to ten feedings of breast milk or formula a day. </span></span></li>
<li><span style="font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: small;">Curiosity about what you're eating. Your baby may begin eyeing your bowl of rice or reaching for a forkful of fettuccine as it travels from your plate to your mouth.</span></span></li>
</ul><div><h3><span style="font-size: small;">How should I introduce solid food?</span></h3><span style="font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: small;">For most infants, you can start with any pureed solid food. While it's traditional to start your baby on solids with a single-grain cereal, there's no medical evidence to show that introducing solid foods in a particular order will benefit your baby. Good foods to start with include pureed sweet potatoes, squash, applesauce, bananas, peaches, and pears.<br />
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First, nurse or bottle-feed your baby. Then give him one or two teaspoons of pureed solid food. If you decide to start with cereal, mix it with enough formula or breast milk to make a semi-liquid. Use a soft-tipped plastic spoon when you feed your baby, to avoid injuring his gums. Start with just a small amount of food on the tip of the spoon.<br />
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If your baby doesn't seem very interested in eating off the spoon, let him smell and taste the food or wait until he warms up to the idea of eating something solid. Don't add cereal to your baby's bottle or he may not make the connection that food is to be eaten sitting up and from a spoon.<br />
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Begin with a once-a-day feeding, whenever it's convenient for you and your baby, but not at a time when your baby seems tired or cranky. Your baby may not eat much in the beginning, but give him time to get used to the experience. Some babies need practice keeping food in their mouths and swallowing.<br />
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Once he gets used to his new diet, he'll be ready for a few tablespoons of food a day. If he's eating cereal, gradually thicken the consistency by adding less liquid. As the amount your baby eats increases, add another feeding.</span></span><br />
<span style="font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: small;"><a href="" name="articlesection4"></a> </span></span><h3><span style="font-size: small;">How will I know when my baby's full?</span></h3><span style="font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: small;">Your baby's appetite will vary from one feeding to the next, so a strict accounting of the amount he's eaten isn't a reliable way to tell when he's had enough. If your baby leans back in his chair, turns his head away from food, starts playing with the spoon, or refuses to open up for the next bite, he has probably had enough. (Sometimes a baby will keep his mouth closed because he hasn't yet finished with the first mouthful, so be sure to give him time to swallow.)</span></span><br />
<span style="font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: small;"><a href="" name="articlesection5"></a> </span></span><h3><span style="font-size: small;">Do I still need to give my baby breast milk or formula?</span></h3><span style="font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: small;">Yes, your baby will need breast milk or formula until he's a year old. Both provide important vitamins, iron, and protein in an easy-to-digest form. Solid food can't replace all the nutrients that breast milk or formula provides during that first year. See how much <a href="http://www.babycenter.com/404_when-a-child-starts-solids-how-much-breast-milk-does-he-need_8865.bc">breast milk</a> or <a href="http://www.babycenter.com/0_how-to-tell-how-much-formula-your-baby-needs_9136.bc">formula</a> babies need after starting solids.<br />
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</h3>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3699607697659395516.post-81842194339258048882012-03-06T22:29:00.000-08:002012-03-06T22:29:09.999-08:00Seven keys to creating a successful baby sleep, feeding, and play schedule<p>Getting into a regular schedule for sleep, feeding, and activities can make life easier for you and your baby. But how to start? Below, find seven great guidelines for establishing a routine that works.<br /></p><b><a name="articlesection1"></a> </b><h3>Get your baby used to a bedtime routine early on</h3> <p><b>Once you have a consistent bedtime worked out, a daytime routine will fall into place, says Tanya Remer Altmann, a pediatrician and editor-in-chief of <em>The Wonder Years: Helping Your Baby and Young Child Successfully Negotiate the Major Developmental Milestones</em>.</b></p> <p><b>And the easiest way to establish a regular bedtime is to start a bedtime routine that you and your baby can depend on night after night.<br /><br />"The bedtime routine is the most important thing to consider when establishing a schedule," says Altmann. "You can't force it in the first few months, but you can start practicing at around 2 months."<br /><br />Altmann says to keep it simple: a warm bath, jammies, a feeding, then lights-out. It's fine if feeding lulls your baby to sleep in the early months, Altmann says, but by 3 or 4 months you may want to try putting him down awake so he'll learn to fall asleep on his own.</b></p><b><a name="articlesection2"></a> </b><h3>Teach your baby the difference between night and day</h3> <p><b>Many babies mix up their days and nights at first, sleeping long stretches during the day only to perk up once the sun goes down. Helping your baby learn to tell day from night is a key first step to getting into a workable routine.</b></p> <p><b>Amy Shelley, mom to 8-month-old Alex, offers these tips: "During the day, keep the house bright. Do the exact opposite at night: Keep the house dim and quiet. Don't talk to your baby much during night feedings. Let him learn that night is for sleeping and daytime is for socialization and playtime."</b></p> <div class="sponsorInBodyContainer clear"><iframe style="DISPLAY: none" id="sponsoredTextLinkPhaseAd" class="adContainer" frameborder="0" name="sponsoredTextLinkPhaseAd" scrolling="no" src="about:blank"></iframe></div><b><a name="articlesection3"></a> </b><h3>Learn to read your baby's cues</h3> <p><b>Websites, books, your baby's doctor, and other parents can all help as you figure out an appropriate schedule for your baby. But your child will be an important guide, and he'll tell you what he needs – if you learn to read his cues.</b></p> <p><b>"When parents take the time to be with their baby, the information they receive gets sifted through their own experience. 'Instincts' come from learning about your baby's temperament and what works for him," says pediatrician Daniel Levy, president of the Maryland chapter of the American Academy of Pediatrics and clinical assistant professor of pediatrics at the University of Maryland.</b></p> <p><b>Mom Liana Scott says paying close attention to 9-month-old Keaton has helped her anticipate his needs, which makes life easier and more fun for both of them.</b></p> <p><b>"Now I'm able to feed him before he's really hungry and put him to bed before he's overtired and fussy," says Scott.</b></p> <p><b>Learning what your baby needs when takes time and patience. But you'll see patterns emerge over time. And if you log your baby's naps, feedings, playtime, and so on in a notebook or on the computer, you can use this record to come up with a timetable for doing things.<br /><br /></b></p><h3>When starting out, put your baby's schedule first</h3> <p><b>If you're encouraging your baby to follow a schedule or observing his patterns to figure out a routine that works, make this process a top priority for at least the first couple of weeks. Avoid deviating from the routine with vacations, meals on the go, outings that push naptime back, and so on.</b></p> <p><b>Once you establish a pattern for your baby's sleeping, awake, and feeding times, changing things for an afternoon isn't likely to undo his habits. But it's best to keep your baby's schedule as consistent as possible while he's getting used to it.</b></p><b><a name="articlesection5"></a> </b><h3>Expect changes during growth spurts and milestones</h3> <p><b>Your child accomplishes so much in the first year. He'll nearly triple his weight and achieve some major feats like sitting up, crawling, even walking.</b></p> <p><b>During periods of growth or when he's working to achieve a new milestone, don't be surprised if your baby diverges from his usual routine. He may be hungrier than usual, need more sleep, or return to waking up several times a night. Hang in there – your baby may be back on schedule shortly, or this may be a sign that you need to adjust your routine.</b></p><b><a name="articlesection6"></a> </b><h3>Adjust your baby's schedule to suit his age</h3> <p><b>It may feel like just when you've gotten into a predictable groove with your little one, it's time to change it again. As your baby gets older, he'll need fewer daytime naps and more playtime and stimulation. He'll also need to eat solid foods – first just once a day, but eventually several times a day.</b></p> <p><b>As these developmental shifts happen, your child's schedule will shift as well. Reading up on these milestones and checking out our sample schedule for babies of all ages can help you know what to expect.</b></p><b><a name="articlesection7"></a> </b><h3>Don't expect perfection</h3> <p><b>Some parent-led schedules set the expectation that your baby's routine will always run like clockwork. And though babies do like consistency, you can expect changes from day to day and as your baby grows.</b></p> <p><b>Sometimes, for whatever reason, your baby will want to skip a nap, have an extra snack, wake up before dawn, and so on. And life happens as well – vacations, older siblings, plans with friends and family, errands you need to take care of, and other factors will all come into play in your daily life with your baby. Variation is okay, as long as your baby is getting the sleep, play, food, care, and love he needs to thrive.</b></p><p></p>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3699607697659395516.post-46048495327877214842012-02-22T02:00:00.002-08:002012-02-22T02:00:54.132-08:00<br />
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<span style="font-weight: normal;">New approach urged for
late-talking bilingual babies</span></h1>
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Babies who are raised in homes
where two or more languages are spoken may appear to talk later than those
learning just one language, leaving parents puzzled and concerned as to the
reasons why.</div>
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Conventional wisdom often suggests that such
children are confused and so they take longer to talk. Or, parents may hear that
any apparent delay is just an illusion because kids are little geniuses who can
learn many languages quickly and easily.<br /></div>
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"Both of these views are wrong," US
psychologist <span class="yshortcuts cs4-visible" id="lw_1329685598_0">Erika
Hoff</span> told the <span class="yshortcuts cs4-ndcor" id="lw_1329685598_3">American Association for the Advancement of Science
meeting</span> in Vancouver this weekend.<br /></div>
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"It is not the case that hearing two
languages confuses the child and impairs their ability to acquire anything. But
it is also not the case that children can magically acquire two languages as
quickly as one."</div>
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Instead, psychologists should take a
different approach to testing young children, one that measures their
proficiency in both languages instead of just one.<br /></div>
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When that is done, researchers typically
find that the two tests add up to about the same level of proficiency as would
be seen in a baby who is learning a single language.<br /></div>
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"Children who are exposed to two
languages... must hear less of each language than a child who hears only one and
so it takes them longer to get the same amount of experience with each
language," added Hoff, whose research has focused on highly educated bilingual
Spanish-English families in south Florida.</div>
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Two kinds of tests have existed for decades
-- the Language Development Survey and the <span class="yshortcuts cs4-ndcor" id="lw_1329685598_2">MacArthur Bates Communicative Development
Inventory</span> -- in which parents answer questions about which words their
child knows and how many word combinations the child has at around age two.</div>
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Since their inception decades ago, both
paper-and-pencil surveys have been adapted into different languages, with as
many as 20 variations of the <span class="yshortcuts cs4-visible" id="lw_1329685598_1">LDS</span> and more than 60 of the MacArthur
Bates now out there, researchers said.<br /></div>
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Even this low-tech approach has proven
superior to modern methods, said Philip Dale, professor of speech and hearing
sciences at the University of New Mexico, Albuquerque.<br /></div>
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"Despite an understandable skepticism you
might have about the ability of parents with limited training and a natural
pride in their child, parent-report can be quite an accurate measure," said
Dale.</div>
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Leslie Rescorla, professor of psychology at
Bryn Mawr college in Pennsylvania, who devised the LDS in the 1980s, agreed that
surveys can be very effective in identifying late-talkers by 24-30 months of
age.</div>
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In the LDS, parents are given a 310 word
checklist, and are asked to mark which words their child says. Average children
have about 150 words at that age, and late talkers have 25-50.</div>
Rescorla presented research on new versions of the LDS distributed in Greece,
South Korea and the Netherlands, which showed similar results as have been seen
in the United States.<br />
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For instance, eight percent of Greek
children surveyed were found to be late-talkers, compared to nine percent of US
children.<br /></div>
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Knowing whether a child is a late-talker is
important because it may point to disorders that could be helped with early
intervention, such as autism, hearing loss, or mental impairment, said Nan
Bernstein Ratner, professor of hearing and speech sciences at the University of
Maryland.<br /></div>
"Late-talkers are at high risk for other developmental problems," said
Ratner.<br />
"If you have children who have problems with language and with reading, we
have children who will not succeed in society."<br /><br />
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Previous research has shown that as many as
20 percent of all children are late-talkers, but many of them are simply
"late-bloomers" who catch up by age five, added Ratner.</div>
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"About four-fifths of children will recover.
The problem is we don't know which ones, so if you don't have a crystal ball it
is much better to catch them at age two and to start tracking them, rather than
to wait and see what happens."<br /></div>
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When it comes to bilingual babies, Hoff
urged parents to take advantage of the second-language tests out there, rather
than worry about the child's poor scores in a single survey which is missing the
full extent of the child's knowledge.<br /></div>
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"Because these inventories are available in
multiple languages, you can often assess what they know in both languages," she
said.<br /></div>
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"When you do that, the bilingually
developing children look exactly like the monolingually developing child. They
are acquiring total language knowledge at the same rate."<br /><br />Visit <a href="http://www.babyonline.co.za/">www.babyonline.co.za</a> for more information on pregnancy, birth and raising your baby.</div>
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</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3699607697659395516.post-33072861274907749672011-09-29T23:50:00.000-07:002011-09-30T00:11:12.907-07:00<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh-lYXBW2iNUWwCgXzXE_adgUf5yJF2L4t3_M6jOglifHLxS48MO3Mohlz_A86N3mWBfLtMwcgQSilcWjdjY1euVCOAUJmgk5HA61cYBWGhoBkvW1xyEc740MnwJwdgCSeDYP0TLqn1WXE/s1600/Copy+of+12680025.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 224px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 300px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5658046424954603010" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh-lYXBW2iNUWwCgXzXE_adgUf5yJF2L4t3_M6jOglifHLxS48MO3Mohlz_A86N3mWBfLtMwcgQSilcWjdjY1euVCOAUJmgk5HA61cYBWGhoBkvW1xyEc740MnwJwdgCSeDYP0TLqn1WXE/s320/Copy+of+12680025.jpg" /></a><br /><br /><div>My 2 year old has eczema... it is a nightmare to watch him suffer. What can I do?<br />Eczema (Atopic Dermatitis) is the most common skin condition in children under 5. It’s an itchy rash that gets worse when scratched or rubbed. The majority of cases develop during the first year and most often affects children with a family history of allergies. Medical help is essential and treatment usually includes antibiotics and steroid creams for inflammation as well as antihistamines for itching which helps with sleeping at night. If a food allergy is suspected then food testing and an elimination diet is recommended. Dairy and eggs are often the most common food culprits but not always; followed by soy, wheat, peanuts and fish. A recent study shows that vitamin C can be helpful, but check with your doctor. In the meantime here are some things you can do to alleviate your toddler’s symptoms.<br />1. Prevent scratching by clipping your toddler’s nails very short.<br />2. Reduce baths to no more than 5 minutes; avoid very hot baths. Don’t use soap on the affected area. Try using a mild cleanser (Dove or Neutrogena). Long baths causes the skin to dehydrate and prune, which disturbs the moisture layer of the skin. Avoid rubbing the skin and pat dry. Apply a doctor recommended moisturiser after the bath. (Do not use vegetable fats or oils).<br />3. Add a soothing colloidal oatmeal bath product to the bath water or make your own, see below.<br />4. During a flare-up apply cool compresses, and then moisturise.<br />5. Choose cotton organic clothes for softness and breathability, rather than wool or synthetics.<br />6. Be scrupulously hygienic to avoid the open sores from becoming infected. Ensure that any caregiver at school or otherwise is advised of the extra need for hygiene.<br />7. Wash clothes with a soap based product ie a non bio detergent.<br />8. Use a humidifier to moisturise the air in the room where he sleeps. Reduce situations which cause sweating.<br />Make your own oatmeal bath. For toddlers use 1 cup oatmeal (any oats, quick or slow). For babies 1/3 cup.<br />Blend the oats on the highest setting in a food blender until powder fine. To test whether fine enough, stir 1 tablespoon of the fine oats into a glass of warm water. The oats should readily absorb into the water which then becomes milky and feels silky. If not, continue blending.<br />Sprinkle the oatmeal into the bath while the tap is still running and swirl around with your hand. Break up any clumps. Note; the oatmeal colloid will make the bath slippery, so support your child so that he doesn’t slip. Bath for 5 minutes. Pat dry with a soft towel. </div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3699607697659395516.post-13441396228990484792011-08-17T05:38:00.000-07:002011-08-17T05:42:38.326-07:00
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<br />Nappy Changing Etiquette:
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<br />You may think that changing your baby's nappy while out in public is no big deal, but many people are not happy to witness this baby custom.
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<br />That's why it's very important to ask yourself, "Who might be offended if I change my baby's nappy right here, right now?" This may seem like a common sense thing to you, but you'd be surprised at how many parents are discourteous of others when it comes to changing their baby's nappies while away from home. You should also consider the health implications for both your baby and those of others.
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<br />Parents have been seen changing their baby’s nappies on mall benches, park benches, library floors and other very inappropriate places. Nappies are germy and that's why you should always change your baby in the bathroom wherever possible when you're away from home. Baby changing stations aren't always sanitary, so it’s important to remember your changing mats, like Cherubs Care Mats – they are disposable changing mats which provide a clean, hygienic surface for care-free nappy changes. Give your baby a toy or something to hold onto to so that they don’t touch the wall but also always remember to wash your and your baby’s hands after every nappy change.
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<br />If you're at a friend or family member’s house, they probably won't mind if you change your baby's nappy on the floor or bed (as long as you have a change mat) but always ask first.
<br />There will undoubtedly be times where you will have to make do in a less than ideal situation. Use your best judgment and be sanitary. If you're in a pinch or if there is not a bathroom around, go to your car to change your baby or another safe well lit area away from large groups of people. Always carry disposable hand wipes in case there is nowhere that you can wash your hands – we suggest Cherubs Kiddies Wipes, affectionately known as ‘Sticky Fingers’, they are alcohol free and moisturised for gentle yet thorough cleansing.
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<br />What to do with the dirty nappy… Well, obviously if your baby wears cloth nappies you’ll need to contain the wet nappy in a plastic bag to take home. Disposables should first be placed in a nappy sack before being thrown in the garbage bin. Nappy sacks are a hygienic and fragrant way to dispose of soiled nappies. Try Cherubs Perfumed Nappy Sacks – they seal in wetness and bacteria, neutralise odours and makes visiting or travelling with baby a pleasure.Why practice nappy etiquette? The bulk of germs are hiding where you least suspect - playground equipment, the phone receiver, ATMs, and elevator buttons. People have a false sense of security when it comes to germs. 80% of infections are spread by hand. The solution is proper hand hygiene. In public places, playground equipment, escalator handrails, shopping trolley handles, picnic tables, and Port-A-Potties are top germ carriers.
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<br />Practicing nappy etiquette is just common courtesy. It assures that you won't offend others and most importantly that you don't spread germs!
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<br />Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3699607697659395516.post-80883413444312480552011-06-30T05:20:00.000-07:002011-06-30T05:24:18.674-07:00<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjc3an3VmVlQJVkJJ1qG8oeJvFn9eWmtSO4LZTfmmVuvhbGb7SGuNPg5tvL5yAFb5TL0GKDmhVPNPg8UqOhVe0Dqtzc6UrrD2OnrSH1_mK4S8BygEnsWfvJQJ8FRpunlPq0ZTY-Nt7tWNw/s1600/babyonline07.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 320px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 213px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5623987126439744082" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjc3an3VmVlQJVkJJ1qG8oeJvFn9eWmtSO4LZTfmmVuvhbGb7SGuNPg5tvL5yAFb5TL0GKDmhVPNPg8UqOhVe0Dqtzc6UrrD2OnrSH1_mK4S8BygEnsWfvJQJ8FRpunlPq0ZTY-Nt7tWNw/s320/babyonline07.jpg" /></a><br /><strong>Work – The downside of working from home:<br /><br /></strong>I have been lucky enough to be able to carry on with my job from home. But I am finding it really hard to keep my self esteem up. I miss the office banter, and oddly enough, the office politics. When I find myself at lunch time and I am still in my pyjamas, and the shoulders are full of baby throw-up, I just feel disgusted with myself. I feel annoyed that I am so ungrateful because I do realise how lucky I am to be able to work from home. Any suggestions?<br />Don’t be so hard on yourself. It is hard to remember who you are when you haven’t slept well and you are trying to be everything to everyone. There is no doubt that working from home is not easy. There is no clear cut division between work and home, and so you find yourself torn between the work you are completing and the washing which is waiting to be hung out!<br />Perhaps what you need is to schedule regular work meetings, say once or twice a week. Find a suitable carer for your child for a couple of hours, and go to the office. It will help to get some routine into your day and motivate you to actually brush your hair!<br /><br />Other than that you have to be a bit firmer with yourself. You will look back at this time and long for the days when you could still be in your pyjamas at lunch time. But if it makes you feel horrible, then you will have to get your routine a bit tighter and include shower time for the mommy, so that you are dressed and at the computer like a normal working person.<br /><br /><div></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3699607697659395516.post-55557877165720826052011-06-02T02:06:00.000-07:002011-06-02T02:17:45.732-07:00Walking- Helping the process<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhhklSJvjRgYTY-2dMFWBuCTwyGNkXOAW5FlxOliXm0zh_CT8Uum73h6rBqsxoCrm1gg96Fgi3HIwZAUnkOXZCHq_ZatLVdylzXRoboCCQD6u1NH6jg1y-plT4v3U85z-zwImT86kkUwHU/s1600/blimrf-00069215-001.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 226px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 320px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5613547386974021826" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhhklSJvjRgYTY-2dMFWBuCTwyGNkXOAW5FlxOliXm0zh_CT8Uum73h6rBqsxoCrm1gg96Fgi3HIwZAUnkOXZCHq_ZatLVdylzXRoboCCQD6u1NH6jg1y-plT4v3U85z-zwImT86kkUwHU/s320/blimrf-00069215-001.jpg" /></a><br /><br /><br /><div>The first thing you can do is stop putting pressure on baby. The baby will walk when he is ready, and if you try to speed that process up you can actually end us making baby anxious, and then he will take longer to walk as he will have to recover his confidence. This is especially the case if you try and speed him up and he has a nasty fall.<br /><br />The speed at which you baby takes to walking is related to his genetics, his build and his personality. A plump and quiet little chap is unlikely to walk before a lively bouncy handful of a baby with a thin build. Some babies are willing to explore and risk more easily than others. The other interesting thing is that babies who are accomplished crawlers can take longer to learn to walk, as they may be perfectly content to crawl as it gets them around so well. There are babies that never really enjoy crawling or don’t quite master it. For these babies, the urge to walk may be stronger.<br /><br />What you can do is make sure that baby has all the opportunities he needs to progress at his own pace. Make your home safe for crawling and for cruising – the furniture walking that babies love so much. Loose rugs, wobbly or delicate furniture and breakables will all have to be put away temporarily. Make your home as easy as possible for baby to thrive in. Let baby go barefoot as much as possible – it helps him to grip and balance without slippery socks or chunky shoes to hinder him. Have study furniture for him to hold onto, and have some pieces of furniture close enough together that he can move across the gaps easily. This is an aid to balance skills.<br />Sometimes parents rely on things like play pens and walking rings too much, without realising that this can interfere with baby’s progress. Make sure that you baby does not spend more than a little time in each of these every day.<br /><br />If you baby isn’t walking by the time he is eighteen months old, it is worth having him checked out. The fact is, many babies do not walk till they are close to two, but for your own peace of mind it is a good idea. If there is a problem, picking it early can be a bonus in addressing it.</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3699607697659395516.post-84839265725131588192010-05-26T07:14:00.000-07:002010-05-26T07:22:20.339-07:00Causes of headaches during pregnancy<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg3MrtNyLrfh06KCFl9pWX0djJa84nNh8qfAhjv-fDX2FHi01n9y-YUe_Bvt2bVckk_U4bYFXXjIWw3K8WaZvgO0LrawJiWZUIRwDclGs6Y0lIILCd1eVLzeujo-EC3x3wkf9XezD9ffZs/s1600/pregnancy_headache.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 214px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg3MrtNyLrfh06KCFl9pWX0djJa84nNh8qfAhjv-fDX2FHi01n9y-YUe_Bvt2bVckk_U4bYFXXjIWw3K8WaZvgO0LrawJiWZUIRwDclGs6Y0lIILCd1eVLzeujo-EC3x3wkf9XezD9ffZs/s320/pregnancy_headache.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5475582445871801186" /></a><td align="left" valign="top" class="indextextSize10" style="color: rgb(119, 119, 119); font-family: Verdana; font-size: 8pt; line-height: 14px; "><div align="justify"><p>Headaches are, as most as other sensations in pregnancy, caused by hormones. But in addition there could be reasons like low blood sugar, dehydration, caffeine withdrawal and stress, especially related to insomnia. Nevertheless it is not unusual to get headaches in pregnancy and mostly it improves as the pregnancy progresses.</p></div></td>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3699607697659395516.post-61598104696594076992010-04-27T07:32:00.000-07:002010-04-27T07:50:52.216-07:00First Birthday!<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhPpQHKKAL6emHVgAxrmWBSBzC1tp5eMQvlaIPVFKvUFYw69HpipmjZuKCSrirZbPy9IRCvTgBkyevvc0RJfAmzAt3RxoXb6iWR9WZz1-a2xkc8VVbjVErgW7y1-4oAxsh08noomYuEERk/s1600/cupcake.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5464829668388003618" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 301px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 320px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhPpQHKKAL6emHVgAxrmWBSBzC1tp5eMQvlaIPVFKvUFYw69HpipmjZuKCSrirZbPy9IRCvTgBkyevvc0RJfAmzAt3RxoXb6iWR9WZz1-a2xkc8VVbjVErgW7y1-4oAxsh08noomYuEERk/s320/cupcake.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><div>The ideal party for a one year old includes a few select guests who are familiar to the party person. Keep décor simple, and make sure that the food is suitable for tiny guests. This means that the adults will have to forgo the salted peanuts and other snacks that could cause choking. Do not be tempted to get in entertainers such as clowns – there will be plenty of time for that in the years to come, and your one year old is just as likely to be terrified by a clown as thrilled by it. Try not to put too much pressure on baby to perform for the crowd. Let baby be himself and enjoy the things he wants to do – even if that is just to play with the discarded wrapping paper. It’s baby’s day – so make it an easy one for him to enjoy!</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0